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Circle989898
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17 Nov 2011, 9:28 pm

I feel like I would be a complete failure, if i found a girl that liked me for who I am. Agree or disagree?



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17 Nov 2011, 9:41 pm

If she liked you for who you are, then she wouldn't see you as a failure.



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17 Nov 2011, 9:43 pm

I assume you mean you believe yourself at this point in time to be a failure.

Honestly, if someone truly likes you for you they will also like any self-improvement you implement.


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18 Nov 2011, 3:21 am

It's one thing if that's the way you see it and can't help feeling that way, but do your best to hide it from someone you like, because then she will start seeing you that way as well.



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18 Nov 2011, 3:59 am

Being a failure (in the present moment), but having a dream and a plan go far.

Plus, accepting someone for who they are means that you can see the good as well as the bad and see that the good exceeds the bad.



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18 Nov 2011, 7:22 am

I wouldn't see that as a failure, I'd see that as a success. Too many women try to change their partners.


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20 Nov 2011, 6:16 am

Disagree. If she likes you she likes you.


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