There are three people who came into my life in 2020 who confused the hell out of me. The similarities between them, and the coincidence that they all came into my life so near together, was astonishing, and had me convinced the universe was playing tricks on me. And if not for the fact that I've met one of them in person and facetimed the other two, I'd consider the possibility that someone was playing tricks on me. They do seem to be three distinct people LOL.
Anyway, what's still got me concerned is that I've treated each of them completely differently for essentially the same behavior. One of them, in fact, I've completely cut off contact with. The differences between them, I believe, warrant different treatment, but the similarities have me worried that I've been unfair.
A slight from one of them, for example, has occasionally gotten me pissed off at all three of them.
And something that occurred to me just tonight: why the hell didn't I just ask all of them for clarity? I did kinda have that conversation with one of them late last year, but then continued to have challenges. So, not sure conversations would help, and kinda reinforces my reluctance to have difficult conversations.