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CantExplain
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04 Dec 2011, 3:13 pm

I'm a good man, a loving husband, a proud father, a hard worker, a loyal friend.
I pay my taxes and obey the law. I'm not violent, I try not to hurt people and I don't tell lies.

Why can't people accept me?


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04 Dec 2011, 3:19 pm

Because you're suffering from a problem known as "being surrounded by a**holes".


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04 Dec 2011, 3:25 pm

I know the frustration. The question is, accepted by whom? Acceptance by everyone is an impossibility for any human being. And yeah, there's the a-hole problem. Maybe you're looking for acceptance in the wrong places. Or, what degree of acceptance are you needing? I need enough acceptance to go shopping and such. I could care less if they approve. I do need more from friends and that's hard to find.


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04 Dec 2011, 3:26 pm

Vince wrote:
Because you're suffering from a problem known as "being surrounded by a**holes".


Bad mental image!! !



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04 Dec 2011, 6:12 pm

[Moved from General Autism Discussion to Random Discussion]


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04 Dec 2011, 6:21 pm

Because people can be nasty and they expect everybody to be exactly the same in the modern NT world.


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04 Dec 2011, 7:00 pm

Dear CantExplain, It is not 'can't accept', it is 'chooses not to accept'. You have a choice for their behavior:

ignorance
Prejudice
Feeling good by comparison
Society's expectation of male behavior