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19 Jan 2012, 8:01 am

Do people often call u that? I know my dad does because I act like a wimp on purpose to troll the sweet jeebus out of him but he seems to take it literally actually (NT-trait?). He says I'm pretty damn good at it, naturally talented.

Sadly enough, my dad isn't the only one who thinks like this, I had been called a p**** enough at high school, some people actually thought I was gay at first sight.



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19 Jan 2012, 8:10 am

I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age.


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19 Jan 2012, 3:45 pm

kobi_galon wrote:
I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age.


having the balls to not do the things you were expected to is more of a brave feat



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19 Jan 2012, 4:22 pm

bucephalus wrote:
kobi_galon wrote:
I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age.


having the balls to not do the things you were expected to is more of a brave feat


True. It's not being a sissy to choose not to do stupid things.


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19 Jan 2012, 5:02 pm

I probably am, though no has had the nerve to call me that. People are idiots. I wouldn't let someone else give you your identity.



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19 Jan 2012, 6:00 pm

Before I started putting on weight people used to call me a bit of a sissy, I never did the stereotypical "little boy" stuff. I was more interested in reading a book.


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19 Jan 2012, 7:00 pm

I'm a sissy. :cry:


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19 Jan 2012, 7:28 pm

I hate all these cultural requirements on men forcing them to be aggressive, brutal as*holes instead of caring, sympathetic beings! f**k YOU CULTURAL NORMS!! !



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19 Jan 2012, 7:35 pm

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I hate all these cultural requirements on men forcing them to be aggressive, brutal as*holes instead of caring, sympathetic beings! f**k YOU CULTURAL NORMS!! !


Amen!


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19 Jan 2012, 7:56 pm

I've been called wussy aLOT & another word that rhymes with wussy but starts with a P. My personality is kind of the opposite of the stereotypical masculine guy, I have anxiety issues & some people think I'm really sweet


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19 Jan 2012, 9:07 pm

nick007 wrote:
I've been called wussy aLOT & another word that rhymes with wussy but starts with a P. My personality is kind of the opposite of the stereotypical masculine guy, I have anxiety issues & some people think I'm really sweet


Way to go bro! I'm with ya on this one! Only other thing I have to say is that it can be really tough for guys to actually be like you- I for one often find it somewhat tempting to be aggressive or assertive in many cases. I try to be as empathetic and caring as I can, but I have very low tolerance for certain types of people.



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19 Jan 2012, 9:10 pm

Aimless wrote:
bucephalus wrote:
kobi_galon wrote:
I was called that too. Especially by my older brother (he's NT), who probably still thinks that I'm gay. He called me that when I was younger and didn't want to do things that he did when he was my age.


having the balls to not do the things you were expected to is more of a brave feat


True. It's not being a sissy to choose not to do stupid things.



Yes, I agree with you guys. And that's what I always thought when he called me sissy (or something else that meant this). I just couldn't say it to him, because of my lack of communication skills. But I always had this in mind. And I never ever wanted to be like him or other boys who did stupid things.


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19 Jan 2012, 10:05 pm

Eeyup.


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19 Jan 2012, 10:31 pm

I have not. I like to think give off a "Push the wrong button and that guy will explode" vibe.
Come on, push the button, I dare you :twisted:


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20 Jan 2012, 1:30 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I'm a sissy. :cry:


Same here, but proud of my sissiness. 8)


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20 Jan 2012, 1:39 pm

I'm a bit girly if that's what you mean.