The only thing worse than figuring out when its your time to talk in a room full of people face to face... is figuring out when its your time to talk on the dang phone... I always end up either talking over the other person or waiting forever for my turn... and then when they go quiet I have nothing to add and often the discussion isn't actually over.
talking on the phone is horrible.
However, I don't text either (even though I have a smart phone with qwerty keyboard) the reason: I have no idea what-so-ever how people manage to get each other's phone numbers. Apparently I missed that lesson growing up and I am really not worried about learning it now so I never really bothered.
Generally if I have someone's phone number its not someone I talk privately with, and I only have it because of a need for one-time communication.
so I'll say that I would rather text, even though I don't...
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Very high systematizing, low empathy, but moderate to high sympathy.
I do not experience cognitive dissonance reduction the way that other people do.
Professionally diagnosed in March 2018