jmnixon95 wrote:
Based on what I've seen of your personality on here, I'm not necessarily doubting that what you are saying is true, as you seem like a kind and likeable person... Have you thought that perhaps the people telling you are manipulating you? Girls especially can be manipulative when it comes to social things. As people with Asperger's, we don't pick up on body language and tone of voice, etc., as well as other people do [though we can learn.] Perhaps you are not reading the signals correctly that these girls are giving off when they tell you this stuff? They may just want to see your reaction if they tell you these things and alter your thinking about the other girls.
I haven't had that specific issue but I have had situations where I did not properly read the body language of people and they were able to say things or do things and I thought that they were true/right when it turned out that they weren't later.
This rings a bell so to speak.. Have been told similar things only to later realise that I was being misled. Although it could be genuine too of course.
Not that it's at all easy, but if you can confirm whether or not what people are saying is true then you could state clearly you're not interested and ask them to stop. Or relax, as it were, if it's not true.
it's a pickle though, hope you can find a solution.