Since people with personality disorders just can't stop having one by changing their flaws that come with it or people with autism just can't change their flaws either that also come with it, or people with Bipolar just can't change their moods by trying to control it without medicine, do you think people who are a**holes can just stop being an a**hole if they tried to change that part about them? Or is it also part of their personality and it's also like having a disorder because it's the way they are and it be hard for them to change it and they also be pretending to be nice if they restrained that personality.
This is just something I had been thinking about lately. If we can't stop our autistic traits, maybe an a**hole can't stop being an a**hole because it's also part of them and they may also burn out too by trying to not be a jerk because they had to restrain themselves. Hey can people stop being NT by stopping the traits they have by restraining them also?
If this is all so true, then i feel sorry for them. I can't imagine being that sort of person and always having to restrain myself to be a good person and only to be considered a fake by people. That be so hurtful and sad.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.