kotshka wrote:
I think you can be famous without being so famous that all that happens. Anyway, don't fall into the trap of thinking "I can't understand how anyone could feel that way, therefore it must be impossible." That's the reason we have such a hard time being understood by NTs: they assume that if it's beyond their own experience, it can't exist. An aspie might well set out to be famous. I wouldn't, but we can't say it would never happen, or even that someone wouldn't succeed if, for whatever reason, it was important enough to them.
No, I am not falling into any kind of trap. I know perfectly well that not everybody feels about fame the way I do. I know that people are different. I can see that lots of people actually
want to be famous. There are scores of people queing up to be on reality shows and talent shows and pop idol shows and things like that. Most people
want to be famous. I know that. It's just that I don't. Therefore, even though I
know that they feel differently about fame,their desire for fame seems stupid and illogical to me, because I strongly dislike all the sorts of things they long for (parties, attention, noise, media exposure, etc). However, if I liked those things, it would make sense to want to be famous. Therefore, from their point of view, since they like those things and seek after them, their desire for fame makes sense. It just doesn't make sense from
my point of view, because I do not like those things. See what I mean?