I have has recent expieriance with this. just remember there are two rules to live by in this world. some rules only apply to certain people while others have to follow all the rules, wich is nonsence but that is the way it is set up here on earth
To be completely alright in your own mind, do the best you can to avoid any conflicts later on that really benefit nobody. care about yourself first, you are #1.
do not let these rules make you feel bad. the only reason why rules exist is because people want them too
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Winds of clarity. a universal understanding come and go, I've seen though the Darkness to understand the bounty of Light