Grue wrote:
Friends for me are a precious and rare commodity. I can take a lot, just not being lied to or about. I recognize that some people lie because it's an illness so I'll dismiss that. Being mistaken for a stoner isn't that big a deal to me. Big enough to mention here, sure. Just probably posting to see if anyone else has friends or acquaintances who whink things about you that may or may not be true.
Um, yeah, that happens to everyone. People tend to judge other people a lot and they'll believe any half-truth, semi-convincing lie, or misguided assumption that fits their judgement. I don't understand it, but it is what it is. Being a cannabis consumer myself I'd take much more offense to someone thinking I was an alcoholic than a stoner-- alcoholics have been around ~6000 years in western society whereas stoners are much newer and thus en vogue. Then again, if I were being perfectly honest I wouldn't care one way or another, I've been judged enough that I really just don't care what people think anymore.