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30 Jul 2015, 3:13 am

Hi my dad wants to kill himself because of me but I don't really know what I did I don't want him to kill himself what do I do:!::?: :cry:


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30 Jul 2015, 4:20 am

you should have posted this in "The Haven" for a kick off.


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30 Jul 2015, 6:29 am

FNAFROCKS wrote:
Hi my dad wants to kill himself because of me but I don't really know what I did I don't want him to kill himself what do I do?
Did you dad actually say that he was going to kill himself? If so, did he actually say that it would be your fault?



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31 Jul 2015, 3:22 am

Pretty much..


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31 Jul 2015, 6:21 am

"Pretty much"?

Did he imply it or did you infer it?



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31 Jul 2015, 6:48 am

Details of exactly what was said and the situation might help get you more personal responses.

But in general: it isn't you causing his suicidal thoughts. It's his feelings about his thoughts about you. Sounds like he needs to learn to control both his thoughts and his reactions to them.


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31 Jul 2015, 7:08 am

Don't take it so personally. It would be more likely that your mom played the substantial role in his misery. Or, do not forget to consider his personal attitude choices. One could have a perfect kingdom and still be miserable due to having the wrong attitude.

You are not responsible for his happiness. He is. It is wrong to blame you.