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Kitty4670
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29 Dec 2015, 7:39 pm

Are you ok with people touching your things? When I'm out & I buy something, when the woman squeezed, over & over again, I can be weird about touching my stuff. When someone help me clean my apartment, I can be weird, picky & freaked out when someone touching my stuff when cleaning, I don't know why, but I feel very weird about it. They can do things without my permission, like wanting to put stuff away for me or telling me what to do in my own apartment. It is just me or other people are like this.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:55 pm

I strongly dislike it when people touch my stuff without asking.
I also don't trust pretty much anyone to not break or steal my stuff.



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29 Dec 2015, 8:50 pm

Unauthorized touching of myself by others or my belongings or relocating, damaging them, or rearranging them really irritates me.



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29 Dec 2015, 9:03 pm

na i'm not really ok with people touching my thighs. i guess in general i hate when people touch me. it makes me uncomfortable.



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29 Dec 2015, 9:22 pm

it depends if its an attractive girl touching me or some random ugly girl or a guy... An attractive girl then go right ahead.



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29 Dec 2015, 11:03 pm

I don't like people touching my things, it makes me feel irrationally irritated/anxious. I don't really like sharing either, I'd rather have full ownership over something.



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30 Dec 2015, 3:03 pm

When people get uncomfortable with other people touching their stuff, is this because of having Asperger?

I should let people help me when cleaning, I don't get uncomfortable all the time.



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31 Dec 2015, 8:06 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
When people get uncomfortable with other people touching their stuff, is this because of having Asperger?

I should let people help me when cleaning, I don't get uncomfortable all the time.

Assign them tasks that you know won't bother you, and do the tasks that will bother you yourself.