I Hate Being A Guy, I HATE IT!! !

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Midna
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20 Aug 2010, 12:12 pm

I hate being a guy with a passion and the thing is, I kinda always have been. Life is a lot easier when you're a girl for many reason, some things is easier being a guy but it's better in general being a girl.

I have a few reasons but I don't want to talk about it right now.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:15 pm

For some reason I thought you were a girl. :?



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20 Aug 2010, 12:16 pm

I'd take that as a compliment, I guess.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:28 pm

I thought you were a girl, too. :lol:


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20 Aug 2010, 12:36 pm

Me too... :?

Anyway I always I thought being a guy was easier, I still think it is. As a female you get to have periods, be the one who gets pregnant, and have people make nasty sexist comments about you.


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20 Aug 2010, 12:44 pm

I'd rather deal with monthly problems then what I go though day after day. If I can be normal, have a good life and / or even have a friend. That's what I want.

EDIT: Maybe not easier for everyone but for me. It is one of the main effects in my life.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:48 pm

Midna wrote:
I'd rather deal with monthly problems then what I go though day after day. If I can be normal, have a good life and / or even have a friend. That's what I want.

then its the aspergers you want to change not your gender. My life sucks and I have no friends, being a 'girl' is not easier, I think your goal maybe being an 'NT'.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:51 pm

Every Aspie girl I know has life easier then me, they don't have autism as bad as I do, life is easier for them and they all have a boyfriend or at least a few friends. Every Aspie girl I know has a boyfriend.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:51 pm

I don't think either gender has it easier. Just different.


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20 Aug 2010, 12:52 pm

Well, it'll be easier for me.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:53 pm

Midna wrote:
Every Aspie girl I know has life easier then me, they don't have autism as bad as I do, life is easier for them and they all have a boyfriend or at least a few friends. Every Aspie girl I know has a boyfriend.

well I dont have a boyfriend. missconstrue doesnt have a boyfriend, halebopp doesnt have a boyfreind. Im sure many others dont too.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:53 pm

Midna wrote:
Every Aspie girl I know has life easier then me, they don't have autism as bad as I do, life is easier for them and they all have a boyfriend or at least a few friends. Every Aspie girl I know has a boyfriend.


Having friends and/or boyfriends doesn't make life easier. Then again, that may seem weird coming from a married woman. *shrug*


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20 Aug 2010, 12:55 pm

Midna wrote:
Well, it'll be easier for me.


This I can relate to, being transgendered. Life would be easier if I was the physical gender I felt I was inside. It's the emotional impact that makes life harder to handle.


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20 Aug 2010, 12:58 pm

For me, being a guy has a few bad effects on my life which I already have many becuase of autism. When your a girl I notice your more accepted. Girls with friends that are girls are more close and personally about stuff, girls with guy friends are not like that unless there bf or gf. What I'm saying is it's harder to have a friend when your a guy, especially one like me, and Aspie who has the worst communication skills.



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20 Aug 2010, 1:04 pm

Midna wrote:
For me, being a guy has a few bad effects on my life which I already have many becuase of autism. When your a girl I notice your more accepted. Girls with friends that are girls are more close and personally about stuff, girls with guy friends are not like that unless there bf or gf. What I'm saying is it's harder to have a friend when your a guy, especially one like me, and Aspie who has the worst communication skills.


I don't know about that. I've always found it a little easier to be close to my male friends.

It really doesn't sound like you're transgendered... just that you think being a girl is easier. It's honestly not. Sure, some aspects of being a girl might be easier, but there are plenty of aspects that are not.

It's a lot harder to get people to take you seriously, for instance. People are more inclined to pat you on the head like a child then really listen to what you have to say. Especially in the work force.


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20 Aug 2010, 1:08 pm

I'm not transgendered but I wanted to be a few years ago. I got some problems being male which makes life really hard, I'm embarrassed to talk about it though.