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Kitty4670
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03 Apr 2018, 9:57 pm

Why do family think they know better than you & they think they know what best for you?



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03 Apr 2018, 10:01 pm

The reason they do that is because they want us to be happy and because they can't get inside our heads to see what's really best for us. They also think that they're helping us when the reality is, most of the time they're not helping at all.


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04 Apr 2018, 1:06 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
The reason they do that is because they want us to be happy and because they can't get inside our heads to see what's really best for us. They also think that they're helping us when the reality is, most of the time they're not helping at all.


This really. They want us to be happy, but it's their version of happy, not ours.


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04 Apr 2018, 1:32 am

I wish they would stop, all they doing is hurting me soooooo much & causing me sooo much pain. My grandmother can treat me like I’m very very badly handicap & I’m sooo helpless, I can not take care of myself, I know I need help,but I can do things on my own, she wasn’t like this before. She started acting this way after my mom died, we were talking on the phone few days ago & she got me so upset.