1950s newspaper asked should women be spanked

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05 Jul 2018, 1:35 pm

Women Deserve Spankings According To Old ‘Daily Mirror’ News Clipping

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For every bit of gratitude one might feel for the gifts of the 1950s and 60s — rock ‘n roll and Mad Men, to name a few — there’s a friendly reminder that it’s a good thing those eras are long gone. Take, for instance, the fact that it used to be acceptable to publicly debate whether women should be spanked for bad behavior.

This particular reminder comes courtesy of an old newspaper clipping from the New York Daily Mirror by way of the folks at Dangerous Minds, who posted an image of it.

In the newspaper column, pictured below, readers are asked to bat around what was an apparently an issue back in the day: “If a woman needs it, should she be spanked?”

If the posing of the question wasn’t questionable enough, the responses the paper selected for publication all answered in the affirmative.

“It teaches them whose boss,” one Teddy Gallel wrote in. “A lot of women tend to forget this is a man’s world and a lot of men who who stepped down as boss of a family wish they hadn’t.”

Other justifications included, “Most of them have it coming to them anyway,” which came from one William Davis.

And then there was Frank Desiderio, a barber by trade, who didn’t just approve of spanking a disobedient women “when she deserved it” but offered up the tip that a hairbrush is a suitable tool by which to do so.

“I can’t knock the idea,” he wrote. “In my business, a man sets a lot of store by the results he can get with a hairbrush properly applied.”

Adding insult to injury — per the note at the bottom of what was apparently known as the paper’s “You Said It!” column — the writer of the query earned $10 for having it published.

One Jezebel commenter wondered if the clipping may be some kind of hoax. While Dangerous Minds seems to have been the first to publish, it has since picked up more attention on Buzzfeed and other sites, though none of them include more details on its origins.

Another Jezebel user countered the assertion that the clipping my might be fake by pointing out that, historically speaking, the idea of spanking women wasn’t altogether uncommon: She included a link to The Society Pages, which collected a gallery of images portraying women being spanked in advertisements for films and in comic books


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05 Jul 2018, 2:21 pm

Sounds like something the Daily Mirror would publish in 2018 :wink:



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05 Jul 2018, 2:41 pm

I think its crazy that hitting your wife is rightfully not socially accepted yet hitting a child is. The wife can leave the child is forced to live with their abuser.



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05 Jul 2018, 3:47 pm

Hot.


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05 Jul 2018, 5:48 pm

Personally I prefer that to all this political correctness we have today. At least back then people had more freedom of speech.


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05 Jul 2018, 6:24 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Personally I prefer that to all this political correctness we have today. At least back then people had more freedom of speech.


Not sure that is really true, as far as the law goes...freedom of speech has not been undone. Perhaps maybe now some things that were more socially acceptable in the past aren't anymore so may get a more negative public response. But we still have freedom of speech as written in the constitution.

Also what good is freedom of speech if you have to 'behave' to avoid spankings from your husband or other men in your life...if you mis-speak, or they decide you're getting too loud/obnoxious.'

Even if there was 'more' freedom of speech(which I do not think is the case) you wouldn't have benefited....as you would have been 'kept in line' by your husband or other men in your life under the threat of spankings if you don't. Meaning saying something they don't like or disagreeing with them on a household issue could end with some bruising. Now days you can say what you want, and even angrily confront your husband/S.O if he pisses you off or upsets you and they aren't allowed to hit you(thats assualt) nor is it socially acceptable, certainly seems better now days.


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05 Jul 2018, 6:40 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
Personally I prefer that to all this political correctness we have today. At least back then people had more freedom of speech.


Not sure that is really true, as far as the law goes...freedom of speech has not been undone. Perhaps maybe now some things that were more socially acceptable in the past aren't anymore so may get a more negative public response. But we still have freedom of speech as written in the constitution.

Also what good is freedom of speech if you have to 'behave' to avoid spankings from your husband or other men in your life...if you mis-speak, or they decide you're getting too loud/obnoxious.'

Even if there was 'more' freedom of speech(which I do not think is the case) you wouldn't have benefited....as you would have been 'kept in line' by your husband or other men in your life under the threat of spankings if you don't. Meaning saying something they don't like or disagreeing with them on a household issue could end with some bruising. Now days you can say what you want, and even angrily confront your husband/S.O if he pisses you off or upsets you and they aren't allowed to hit you(thats assualt) nor is it socially acceptable, certainly seems better now days.


That doesn't necessarily mean we are "more free" in speech or otherwise as compared to back in those old days. I still disagree with political correctness and say it's gotten far out of control. I even believe some parts of society are regressing.



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05 Jul 2018, 7:04 pm

I believe that women should only be spanked for sexual reasons & if they want it or are OK with it. I believe the same for men & I believe that kids should not be spanked in most all situations.


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05 Jul 2018, 8:32 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Personally I prefer that to all this political correctness we have today. At least back then people had more freedom of speech.

Well back then, "freedom of speech" just meant that you could say negative things about your government without fear of retribution. Today, people have twisted it, and believe that it literally means you can say anything you want, to anybody you want, and use it as a defense to yell vulgar obscenities in public (for example).

Back then, it was certainly taboo to discuss certain topics, depending on whose company you were in. I know there was a famous saying, that went something along the lines of "never discuss religion or politics".


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05 Jul 2018, 9:55 pm

I'm glad these aren't the 50s. I'd be forced to be married and spanked by a man if I dared to be myself.


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06 Jul 2018, 2:05 am

Sweetleaf wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
Personally I prefer that to all this political correctness we have today. At least back then people had more freedom of speech.


Not sure that is really true, as far as the law goes...freedom of speech has not been undone. Perhaps maybe now some things that were more socially acceptable in the past aren't anymore so may get a more negative public response. But we still have freedom of speech as written in the constitution.

Joe90 is from the UK so she is not protected by the American constitution. They have enacted “hate speech” laws there in recent decades. Also there are a few more restrictions on what the media can publish. Reporters without borders ranks the UK 40th in world in regards to press freedom. Political correctness is even more pervasive there then in America.


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06 Jul 2018, 2:17 am

SabbraCadabra wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
Personally I prefer that to all this political correctness we have today. At least back then people had more freedom of speech.

Well back then, "freedom of speech" just meant that you could say negative things about your government without fear of retribution. Today, people have twisted it, and believe that it literally means you can say anything you want, to anybody you want, and use it as a defense to yell vulgar obscenities in public (for example).

Back then, it was certainly taboo to discuss certain topics, depending on whose company you were in. I know there was a famous saying, that went something along the lines of "never discuss religion or politics".


In the US for the most part you can legally say what you want. A lot of things that were taboo are not now. Taboos are enforced by individuals, social groups and business.

“Never discuss religion or politics” was the exact common saying. People did discuss these with close friends and family but they were not topics people brought up at work or among casual aquaintences or strangers.


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06 Jul 2018, 3:22 am

yeah well the word "spanked" connotes a rather tame action comparatively to "bashed".

oh a hair brush wielded with precision. how kinky.
i bet they were spanked on the bottom. oh no!!

i think some women who were feeling bored with the love life they had with their husbands may have purposely "acted up" in order to be spanked.

or maybe not.



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06 Jul 2018, 3:39 am

it would serve him right if she had an accident on his hand while he was spanking her. that'd teach him.



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06 Jul 2018, 5:03 am

b9 wrote:
i think some women who were feeling bored with the love life they had with their husbands may have purposely "acted up" in order to be spanked.

It usually comes off that way in the movies.


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06 Jul 2018, 5:53 am

but the movies are the reel world and not the real world.