That's not "stupid" at all Kitty, and these things can make it harder to think straight because they cause anxiety. I have had similar problems with some places that I lived. Autistic sensitivities can be many different things; heat, light, noise, smell, etc. Finding a new place to live can be very difficult sometimes, but I certainly encourage you to consider it and have a look into what other living arrangement you might be able to have.
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