Strippers

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My cousin likes to get lap dances but doesn't date women. Is this typical for an aspie?

It is typical for a man, aspie or not, who has his own money and easy access to strippers.  It is easier to spend 20 to 100 dollars on a woman in some sleazy joint and know that she will be (mostly) naked for you in just a minute or two than it is to drop hundreds of dollars over several dates for only a quick cuddle and a peck on the cheek every now and then.

But then, some men are more interested in women's bodies than they are in forming meaningful, long-term relationships with the women themselves. I'm told that it's all about the control the man has over the stripper, if only for a few minutes -- "It's my money and I've paid for you, so do what I say!".

Is he an Aspie? Typical? No, it's not "typical" for a man to get lap dances regardless of whether he's NT or ND. I would venture to say a very small number of men percentage wise frequent strip clubs.

I've been to a strip club maybe five times in my life and didn't find the experience at any of them to be titillating in the least. One called the "Lamplighter", a topless bar, was bizarrely interesting in a surreal non-sexual way only because the haggard dancer stuck birthday candles to her nipples somehow and lit the candles while she danced...