I've noticed the opposite problem, meaning people don't get punished for things that they really should. In WP for examble, misogyny is an undying problem that the mods don't really do much about. Sometimes some people get banned for a little while, but that's it.
Pieplup wrote:
The other problem Is i just can't follow rules I don't agree with. I just get super argumentative and get all caught up in how stupid the rule is I usually end up making the mods want to ban me
That one's on you, then. If you join a website, you need to follow the rules. If you don't like the rules, you can try to negotiate with the people who make them so that they could change them, but if that doesn't work, either follow the rules or leave. Their site, their rules.