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Densel
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08 May 2023, 12:03 am

Be honest, do you like romantic love?

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08 May 2023, 12:19 am

I do but in movies and TV shows. Lol. I cant imagine being in an actually relationship, people where i live are not accepting of autism.

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08 May 2023, 12:22 am

Yes

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08 May 2023, 12:28 am

Yes.

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08 May 2023, 12:53 am

:heart:

I do.

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08 May 2023, 3:50 am

Densel wrote:

Be honest, do you like romantic love?

Experienced, yes.

Portrayed, no (they always get it wrong).

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08 May 2023, 8:05 am

@April I usually don't even like it on movies, just another reminder of what i'll never have. And I can't have it in real life either.

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08 May 2023, 8:08 am

Absolutely, Yes!

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08 May 2023, 8:13 am

I'm too aromantic-spec for this.
Like, I have had feelings for exactly one person. Overall though romance makes no sense to me and I don't desire it.

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08 May 2023, 8:23 am

I've been going back and forth on this one for a few months now. One the one hand, I'm terrified of romantic relationships. I have both commitment and trust issues, which are bad things in general, but worse when you add other people to the mix. Not to mention that I have serious doubts about my ability to be a decent partner to anyone, even if I deal with those trust /commitment issues. On the other hand, I think that the idea of being in an actual relationship with someone that I love, who loves me, that I'm sharing a life with...that sounds good. Then I start thinking on the loss of freedom, the overwhelm that people bring to the table (even people I really enjoy/value/care for), and so on and I go right back to thinking it's a bad idea to ever even try again. I dunno.

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08 May 2023, 8:29 am

Yes :heart:

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08 May 2023, 10:16 am

I love being in a romantic relationship & majorly HATED being single but I do NOT expect relationships to be like the Disney farytales & Hollywood movies. I don't get the chemestry thing & I don't like kissing. I care about long term substantive things like respect, trust, commitment, loyality, & being there for each other when one of us is having a difficult time.

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08 May 2023, 10:20 am

Yes, I have.

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08 May 2023, 10:33 am

Densel wrote:

@April I usually don't even like it on movies, just another reminder of what i'll never have. And I can't have it in real life either.

I guess i just like it on a fictional scale. I like dramatic and sometimes tragic romance stories. I wouldn't want anything like that irl to be sure.

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08 May 2023, 10:34 am

Ich Libe Dich :heart:

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08 May 2023, 11:41 am

I find it massively inconvenient but it is nice.
I wouldn't ever wish it away, but I regret it.
Love is a responsibility.
It also means you can never truly be free.

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