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Sillylilgoober
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27 Oct 2023, 10:43 am

one keeps on calling sped(special ed) and once the r word


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27 Oct 2023, 10:48 am

How old are you when you go to middle school


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27 Oct 2023, 10:50 am

12-14



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27 Oct 2023, 10:55 am

I think that's probably normal behaviour then in that case


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27 Oct 2023, 11:00 am

babybird wrote:
I think that's probably normal behaviour then in that case

It's "normal" but it shouldn't be. But yeah, kids are cruel, not much you can do about that.



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27 Oct 2023, 11:12 am

dang :(


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27 Oct 2023, 1:57 pm

Because they literally have not matured yet. They will eventually - might take another 10-20 years, but people do grow up and grow out of those behaviours in time.


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27 Oct 2023, 2:53 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
12-14


I think at that age it's common to define yourself by what you're not (and / or by the status quo) and to say or do anything that's considered bad (for the sake of being edgy which is seen as cool).

Most people age out of this edgy stage. I can't stand adults who still act this way.


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27 Oct 2023, 2:58 pm

Yes they mature and change with time. In my case, after diagnosis which only happened almost 27 years after leaving school, there was a whole string of apologies both online and in person at the reunion, for how they treated me at the time.

It seemed intense to me at the time of high school but in reality I didn't fare too badly. I handled it wrong at the time though.

Be strong; the narcissistic bullying/teasing types hate being ignored as they are the inwardly insecure ones.


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27 Oct 2023, 5:24 pm

Because they're still in middle school?


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28 Oct 2023, 9:09 pm

Their brains cells are being ravaged by hormones right now. But eventually they'll mature and start acting like real 12-14 year olds, which is usually when they're around 45.



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29 Oct 2023, 1:56 am

Sillylilgoober wrote:
Why are middle-school boys immature?
Testosterone, ignorance, and social ineptitude.



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29 Oct 2023, 4:11 am

lostonearth35 wrote:
Their brains cells are being ravaged by hormones right now. But eventually they'll mature and start acting like real 12-14 year olds, which is usually when they're around 45.


45 sounds a bit generous to me :wink:



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29 Oct 2023, 5:18 am

I'm sometimes a 13 year old boy


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