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It's tricky living in NT world, one thing is for sure that men crave sex and when younger I hadn't exposed to issues but now I have baggage because a man must work for sex. When you're autistic female there's lot of denial over intelligence factors that exacerbate relationships. So society refused to give me credit but my ex started living off me and making me clean and not hardly giving me money and demanding sex. I'd met autistic men before but not open minded, high functioning ones. Being asexual my life turned to hell since I dreaded sex and felt it was severe form of abuse.

From work people began always asking me how to do things and idiot me didn't know how to charge at least overtime. Soon I was even helping bosses friends ND being given all sorts of problem solving, after a while I started to question market value,
What I mean is your providing new solutions that doesn't exist that's not salary based, it's not working hourly. It's tricky to know when to keep information for yourself because taking advantage. The reason I share market value is how many autistic are solution, may not work usual hours, feel unsure negotiating salaries as just grateful to have work, but are not being paid market worth.

You have to weigh how your output is valued. If a job requires way too much output for the amount you get, it is time to find a different job or even career. I have had to leave jobs because I was not valued correctly. My former coworkers to one job could not understand why I left to go to another state. I lost money doing it, but gained it back with my new position. I see it as a chess move that put me in a better place.

A few years of time past and they now see it from my point of view. I was the one that held the department together and it fell apart when I left. When I worked there, they did not see me as a valuable part of the university. They relied on my work too much, so they were not pulling their own fair share. That became apparent to them when the department collapsed under them. I do not feel guilty walking away from that job, as I had warned them several times that things were not what they seemed to be.

Remember, you have to value your abilities. If you do not, you will often get taken advantage by others who want a free lunch at your expense.

A lot changed since I'm in ties with other side of family. But the past exploitation is still there and still try to contact me even to point of blackmail, and it's terrible because many who don't really want to pay and system can knock autistic person down.
We had broken tablet screen, and tried change network provider to get new amazing data deals which I want to actually disable caller as these are data enabled devices in home.
My altzeimers booted in arguing over verification, I paid by card, gave Id and harassed me to a frenzy with questions.
This is unproven but my theory was Microsoft money donated to NASA research was project control cellphones actually and every accusation at China is possibility for governments to control internet just like used to censor TV.
We give proof of ID so how is that no longer enough? It's being whole since changed sim but it's really sleepy that phones slow down when logged into Google mail account ND why is it necessary to invade our rights to freedom of information.
Had altzeimers fit again, but I think in future it may be over-identification stress and harassing unlying or innocent cell phone users is restrictive to our needs to study in own time what we need to know ND is no one business, it's my mind and my thoughts and my research.
I am slightly insane, does anyone else relate