Yeah, that happens. I was usually fine when driving, but then I moved to a new city where the traffic got increasingly worse, and then I was in two accidents and almost a third one. After that, I was aware of my surroundings all the time when driving there. Now that I left, I don't think I'm as nervous. I used to try my hardest to stay away from other cars even if it meant speeding. In fact, I thought speeding a little was safer because if I was the fastest vehicle on the road, then I only had to worry about what was in front of me. Now that I'm somewhere with less traffic and it's easier to stay further from others, I feel better.
Maybe it's good that you are paying attention to the traffic in your area. I'm impressed with your boundaries too. Aside from what you said so far, do you think it's causing any other issues?
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