Wrong To Blame NTs For All Of Our Problems

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12 Nov 2007, 8:37 am

I am going to bring up the unthinkable. It is wrong to blame NTs for all of our problems. Some of the things that happen to us are moments when we act like jerks and now look back with embarrassment over them.

There are a lot of decent NTs who do befriend us and offer assistance. That being said, we cannot blame every misfortune that happens on us as NT oppression. Yes even aspies can bring on their own misfortunes just like NTs.


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12 Nov 2007, 8:54 am

I agree completely. Aspies are too quick to view NTs bitterly.


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12 Nov 2007, 9:02 am

Personally, I think my problems are just problems. Many times NTs do make like difficult, but they didn't cause me to be the way I am. Some NTs are fantastic people, and others are just jerks.

NTs can make a lot of generalizations about people, and I'm sure sometimes Aspies do it too.



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12 Nov 2007, 10:09 am

I'm starting to agree.

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12 Nov 2007, 10:21 am

THANKYOU........stereo typing anyone is totally wrong.



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12 Nov 2007, 10:40 am

What are the odds? They are more than 95% of the population.

We are 0.75%, I am not going to have a lot of Aspie problems.

Never AS, I would have the same problems with the same people.

NTs do not love NTs.

It is not just NTs, it's humans.

I am like everyone, concerned with my survival.

Sometimes it works, sometimes they act human.



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12 Nov 2007, 10:59 am

No it's not.

I say "Blame Away!!"

Bunch of snivelling bullies ....


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12 Nov 2007, 12:02 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:
No it's not.

I say "Blame Away!!"

Bunch of snivelling bullies ....


Quoted for truth :lol:


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12 Nov 2007, 12:37 pm

Correct,now NTA's on the other hand,they just enjoying hurting us.


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12 Nov 2007, 1:21 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:
No it's not.

I say "Blame Away!!"

Bunch of snivelling bullies ....


yea, the bully NTs are the biggest crybabies; manipulative, dramatists, troublemakers. they always have alterior motives; the NT narcissists are the worst! tearing everyone else down for self gratification and attention; lame...

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12 Nov 2007, 1:27 pm

although, i do admit, i have met a few aspie bullies, but they only act that way out of retribution, which i think is kind of stupid. i mean, the attitude "i didn't like how he treated me, so i'm going to treat someone else like that" is counterproductive and hypocritical, to say the least. i think a lot of aspies copycat NTs, but in the worst ways possible, unfortunately.

keep it real! (it freaks NTs out...) ;)


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12 Nov 2007, 2:01 pm

NTs can be jerks. People with AS can be jerks. We each see the world a bit differently. I don't like the NT bashing any more than I like any form of bullying or prejudice. Kudos to you for the thread.


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12 Nov 2007, 2:31 pm

There's a dif between been intentionally a jerk and being a jerk and not realising it. I know myself don't go out my way to upset someone but it happens sometimes anyway because I didn't know how to put something into words or phrase something correctly.



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12 Nov 2007, 3:07 pm

I blame society.
Basically blaming the NTs, but I sound informed



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12 Nov 2007, 4:20 pm

It is the fault of the parents who raised them.



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12 Nov 2007, 5:11 pm

I say gather the pitchforks and torches and storm the castle to kill the NT monster ! !!

Who's with me ????! !!


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