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11 Nov 2007, 2:48 am

I have posted on three other forums.
On the whole from what I have seen so far - people here are nice - I haven't seen much bullying or abuse.
What is the reason for this? What's different about this forum.
I'm curious!



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11 Nov 2007, 3:39 am

I think it's more community oriented. People here are more friendly.



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11 Nov 2007, 3:41 am

ShadesOfMe wrote:
I think it's more community oriented. People here are more friendly.

I agree. We aren't here to talk about AS, we're here BECAUSE of AS, and we can talk about anything we want, not just AS. Therefore we're a lot more relaxed around here.


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11 Nov 2007, 3:42 am

KBABZ wrote:
ShadesOfMe wrote:
I think it's more community oriented. People here are more friendly.

I agree. We aren't here to talk about AS, we're here BECAUSE of AS, and we can talk about anything we want, not just AS. Therefore we're a lot more relaxed around here.


Exactly! :)



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11 Nov 2007, 4:00 am

Is Wrong Planet quite strictly moderated? Also I notice here people are more inclined to speak out against less than pleasant posts.



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11 Nov 2007, 4:07 am

Nope. It's not Very strictly moderated. But it's moderated ok.



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11 Nov 2007, 4:43 am

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Nope. It's not Very strictly moderated. But it's moderated ok.

There's the opportunity to be more loose-lipped than other places and get away with it, but usually the site doesn't NEED strict moderation (until that blue moon time when Atomika returns for a bit).


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11 Nov 2007, 7:19 am

lucy1 wrote:
I have posted on three other forums.

what are the other forums about? were they also AS related?



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11 Nov 2007, 7:30 am

I'm with tomamil. Were these also with AS or was it a free for all. And if they were about AS, perhaps they tended towards the more curebie side. I've seen many forums about AS that do nothing but constantly rant about the bad stuff.



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11 Nov 2007, 8:18 am

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I'm with tomamil. Were these also with AS or was it a free for all. And if they were about AS, perhaps they tended towards the more curebie side. I've seen many forums about AS that do nothing but constantly rant about the bad stuff.

Such as "Blublublublu NTs ruined my life!" or "Blablablabla I can't do anything in life because AS gets in the way!" or "Bleblebleble I want to be cured!"?


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11 Nov 2007, 8:55 am

lucy1 wrote:
I have posted on three other forums.
On the whole from what I have seen so far - people here are nice - I haven't seen much bullying or abuse.
What is the reason for this? What's different about this forum.
I'm curious!

Thank you.

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11 Nov 2007, 2:01 pm

tomamil wrote:
lucy1 wrote:
I have posted on three other forums.

what are the other forums about? were they also AS related?


Yes they were -- they almost make me doubt myself - as though I misunderstand situations. too confusing. Maybe it is because this place is so big - people can't form cliques - allegences (sp)??
quite the same. Maybe this cuts back on bullying type behaviour.

Whatever it is - I feel safer here -- for now.



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11 Nov 2007, 2:03 pm

i agree. i like this forum because its a nice break from all the other forums i visit. i cant be mean all the time, i'll go crazy :P



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11 Nov 2007, 2:03 pm

KBABZ wrote:
GetDownOnIt wrote:
I'm with tomamil. Were these also with AS or was it a free for all. And if they were about AS, perhaps they tended towards the more curebie side. I've seen many forums about AS that do nothing but constantly rant about the bad stuff.

Such as "Blublublublu NTs ruined my life!" or "Blablablabla I can't do anything in life because AS gets in the way!" or "Bleblebleble I want to be cured!"?


Those are so negative I wouldn't even give them a second look.



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11 Nov 2007, 2:50 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
KBABZ wrote:
GetDownOnIt wrote:
I'm with tomamil. Were these also with AS or was it a free for all. And if they were about AS, perhaps they tended towards the more curebie side. I've seen many forums about AS that do nothing but constantly rant about the bad stuff.

Such as "Blublublublu NTs ruined my life!" or "Blablablabla I can't do anything in life because AS gets in the way!" or "Bleblebleble I want to be cured!"?


Those are so negative I wouldn't even give them a second look.


Heheh.

Oh! Another reason! Although we have over 14,500 members as of this post, there's actually a trackable amount of people on the site of about 30-50 or so, in the way that, even if you've been away for over 4 months like I have, you'll still find the same members posting here (in my case there's the exception of werbert, and ahayes doesn't post here as often as he did because he moved to ZOMG). To me, this gives the site a very laid back feel as you're familiar with that group of peopl, and if you're away for 4 months, you get used to the new frequent posters, in my case Ana54 and Brittany2907 particularly, but it's never too much of a hassle.


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11 Nov 2007, 3:10 pm

I'm not sure, but it's nice. Seems most of the nastiness is relegated to the Politics and Religion forum. If you stay out of there everyone is cool.