grouphome sidsuation..i need help!! !!

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ok so i got a figth whith group home workers....i need u to say did i do rigth

so i was in my room when one of em camed to say that i needet to go swim...i said noway..so he telled he will take my machine of if i dont come...then i said try it
-worker:u f****r b***h
-me:i said back someting i dont remember coz in that point i snapped
he goet to kitchen so i goet too then i playet my mouth again to him:are u f*****g whith me? huh?
then he said someting that he dont give a s**t
i pushet her
and he pushet me against wall...now i was really angry at this point i startet figth
i kickket him in nuts and i puhet her back
now she taked control hold on me and pinnet me down minute later i was puttet in restains by 5 workers rigth now im really pissed off...can i complain to this to my sosial worker?:O

really...can any body help me?..any thoughs??

I couldn't understand a word you said.

You need to GET OUT OF THERE. That is AWFUL. Talk to username88 about his place in Cape Cod... he's having a bunch of us go there to live with him... and MADDuck will also take you in. He lives in Houston.

No, it was wrong of you to follow him just to have an argument and you're going out of your way to provoke him like that is why you were restrained.

I'd have to know more about the swimming/machine part to comment on that. What type of machine would he turn off - a medical one, or a video game/tv? Is swimming a part of your therapy or excercise regimine? All these questions need to be answered before one can say whether his initial reaction was appropriate

*edit: his swearing was inappropriate and should be looked into but because of your reaction of following him anything you say about it will be twisted into looking like you started swearing at him and few if any will even consider that that isn't the case.

oh and forget to mention that riding belongs to my therapy not swimming

I work in a group home (I take care of mentally disabled adults)... it's in Canada, so it's probably different from the way they are in Finland... either way, the worker swore at you? That would be unacceptable where I work. It probably wasn't a good idea for you to follow him into the kitchen, but at the same time, his behaviour was totally unprofessional and he definitely should have handled the situation with you differently.

is any one else been ever in grouphome or someting like this place?:(

KingdomOfRats has been... I think several others too.

good...imean..im not so alone after all ..btw i looked your terible place link...i dont know but those homes looked like here ..just dont get why there seemed so clean even there must be wew hunred more then here...we got only9 in here:D

edit:+ in here they use only mecanical restaints