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aspergian_mutant
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06 Mar 2008, 3:37 pm

I figured why bother getting DXed as long as I knew the issues and what affects they had and have on my life,
well, My Ex is claiming that since she actually was diagnosed with Aspergers and that our child "might" be autistic that he would be better off in her care,
funny thing is the Guardian Ad Litem semi agrees and so do the courts, so I said screw that shiznet, I now have an appointment to go get DXed this coming Thursday.
Lets see how the Courts and the Guardian and My EX likes them apples, lets level the playing field a little more, I knew I always had it, guess its time to go get it official.



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06 Mar 2008, 5:44 pm

Go gettum Tiger



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06 Mar 2008, 5:49 pm

I'm getting more help since I've been dXed. So good luck.



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13 Mar 2008, 1:59 pm

Well I just killed three birds with one stone,
I went in for my parenting evaluation and diagnosis today,
I was diagnosed with Aspergers,

(1) so my Ex now can not claim she has more rights to parent our autistic child then me.

(2) I broke the restraining order out side the court house, I thought it neutral grounds so
I could talk with her to hopefully resolve the issues before court, the courts wanted me to show
why I had thought so with a DX, now that I can give probable reason they will most likely drop the issue.

(3) The psychiatrist thought that I should have "Lots" more time with our child then I am now getting,
That I would make an excellent parent, and thats what the Guardian Ad Litem was waiting and wanting to see.

It looks like its going to be 50/50 on custody,
Lol, my ex is going to chew nails,
I done told her I do not know how many times that she is just not going to get what she wants,
alls she did was make a mess of things and make bad feelings,
its looking more and more like I am going to get what I filed for,
and from here on if she becomes too combative over the issue I may well end up with more custody then her.
it finely looks like the worst is over, except for cleaning up the mess of paying off the bills and costs,
and making it all official.
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