Jerk-Poll up ahead

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If you had to say, how much of a jerk you think I am so far, what would it be?

Be honest now

This can be very helpful and I dont mind. Maybe it even can help
someone else.

No hard feelings and no lawyers from me. Just open up.




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You didn't leave us with much on the positive side of the spectrum to work with! It feels like your range goes from 100% negative to 60% positive... and that's not fair to us or yourself since we can't write in our opinions - a bit of bias in the question, perhaps. I think you're doing fine and have made some good contributions; in observation, you seem to be just very hyper-conscious and concerned about the reactions of others. That is understandable, and I hope that in time you will be able to relax more here. I'm glad you're here; hopefully we'll get into some of the same threads together to talk more. Take care.


M.

You have a couple of pretty good observations there, thank
you for telling me.


Was a little difficult to make it so it would work, but its kind of my
"scale", I dont expect anything above the best nice-vote, I think
that would be good. I just couldnt make a "what a guy, the best"
button, it seemed a little dumb (to me).

But please, dont take this poll deadly seriously. Be honest and have fun
or let it die, either way is ok.

This was also the first poll I made here, so could have made the
set-up a lot better, had some difficulty and tried to make it easy to use.

I would say he's a pretty good guy. He's helped me out with a few things, and we seem to have alot of similarities. Perhaps he's just a little misunderstood at times, that's all.

Thank you for that.

Well, so far it looks really good to me. Motivation to be better.

I liked you right away, so I had to choose the 'least worst' choice.

If you had the option, 'Liked him right away', I would have checked that one!

I think everybody has a bit of a jerk within them, but you don't seem to be an overly jerky person to me

From the way you acted in another thread, you came off as a jerk.
I went in your profile and read your posts and I saw you don't mean to be one.
I also saw your response to one of my posts in the thread by Digger1. I sometimes abandon threads after I reply in them.
But I saw you stopped all the constant posting in a row.

I can come off as a jerk, I know, but when you scratch the surface theres
a reason most of the times. I`m not mean to be mean, but I also stand up for
myself. So if someone is mean to me, I pay them back if I think its neccesary,
to stop it from happening again. When you give people a finger, some of them
try to take the whole hand. That doesn`t work with me, its just a part of me,
no mean-ness behind it.


Yes, stopped the posting-in-a-row, I didnt notice the edit button, so just
wrote and posted it, didnt think Im not here to rack up a lot of posts
or anything, I`m just interessted in the people, talking.


But one thing, I have to say this poll was a big surprise and made me happy.
I know some may wonder why I think this is good, but to me these
numbers look very good, much better than I guessed before I started
the poll. So thank you, this was great motivation for me to be a better
person, and I need the motivation I notice.

This poll went the opposite of what I thought, and I learned something
useful happy

Perhaps sometime in the future once you're more established here, you could redo the poll with a more balanced range of options. You might be surprised how that plays out if you're will to throw the dice... and you have shown that already. Cheers.


M.

Yes, trying to be better in my life.

I notice that some may think that my voting options were a little
"unreal" or something. But this is my "range" in a way, trying to be
a little realistic.

I`m guite happy with the "best" vote I made (for me, personally)
There is no way I could have made a "nr. 1 best guy ever" button,
because then it would just be a joke (to me) with little meaning,
waste of time.

You already know what I think, buddy.

While the scale is comfortable for you, it is difficult for me because each option has an emphasis on the negative. I hope only hope, not criticism, so I do not wish to imply that.


M.

I understand, they look a little that way. Just didn`t want to
go "over the top" on the nice guy stuff.