Run away from home

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Running away very far away seems like the only solution i can come with to re-corect my life but running away as a teenager is that legal i also can use some advice and stuff

My mommy and daddy won't let me stay out after 10! They don't understand what it's like to be a teenager and my music and my friends!

whaaa!

Buck up nancy!

My advice...go hug your parents.

-_-' not realy helping me im not some one who cry's and overreact with the smallest things that happens
(no crappy advice please)

If you're 16 or older, get your license, a couple jobs, save up some money for deposit and savings. When you're 18, move out.

I'm not really the best to be speaking though. I was living on my own for four months, then I lost both jobs simultaneously and have had to live with my parents again.

waiting till im 18 takes to long its a few years to me and life gets more imposible every day i preffere to live in a crappy dumster then living like hell

uhm, as I STRONGLY dislike teenage rebellion, we really don't know the situation, what is he going through with family and stuff like that, I doubt anyone here could give a good advise, especially without knowing.

Shouldn't this be in Haven?

a hell life where ever i stand so imagine that

details, youngling. Need details.

are they molesting you, are they letting someone molest you? Are you being sent to bed with no supper? Is someone hitting you? Are you spending your days and nights in your room with death metal blaring so the people in the next block over call the cops while you're in your dark fortress of solitude painting your fingernails black and cutting yourself praying to the goat skull sitting atop your PS3?

i know i need to give some details but there realy worse and i hate to say them but i can tell you
*completely desocialised from everything (wich wasnt even the case a few years back)
*wrong toughts about me by some reason
*pretty useless familey they treat me like im an idiot and a lazy guy and are not supportive at all
*way to much changes in my life waaaaaaaay to much
*to scared to come outside the house
*just very much lockd
*school is like going to a living hell
*any more details?

Do a few things around the house without being asked and you may not get treated like you are lazy. As for the rest...those are not complaints about you family. I repeat...go hug your parents.

they asume im lazy by some reason while i do alot in the house more then other family members and read other details my family is like only 10% of the trouble i dont like to go furter in details with them being completely lockd up school is a living hell to scared to leave the house

ugh.

maybe by "lazy" they mean unmotivated and unclear about your future. If you tried showing more initiative or volunteering or something - join a school sport or something. Start researching college and what you want to study in college.

Aside from that, it's completely normal for teenagers to have these feelings of your world being in a complete upheaval. Once you get some direction, it'll pass.

What's running away from home gonna do? Nothing. You've got no schooling [no diploma], you've got no marketable job skills. Where will you live? How will you eat? You gonna be a bum?

i know how hard it sounds but staying here doesn't feel like much future to these feelings grow stronger every day

Life is temporary. Your life, your parents lives, my life, et cetera. Things will change and you will not always be with your parents. So plan and prepare.

Guy, every parent hates their teenage kids. It's a rule of thumb. They all call their teenage kids lazy; high school is always hell, and this sort of crap happens all the time. Personally, when it happened to me, I just grit my teeth and bared it.
I have... very little communication with my family, now. Not that I'd really have anything to talk about with them.
If you can get a job, do so, save money, etc., etc.
But, I don't know what country you're in, the rules and laws of that place, so I really can't tell you. I head that some of the more backwards American states don't give full adult rights to people until they're in' their mid twenties. Any truth to that?
If so; you, my friend, are screwed if you live in one of those states. Or one of those "twenty one" weird places.

But, truth is, what you're experiencing is just a passing phase. Don't make any foolish decisions that may jeopordise your future.