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NaturalTrapist
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20 Dec 2008, 2:46 am

I wish people would stop thinking that. People always assume that from my looks. Just because a girl is really skinny doe not mean she's anorexic or something. It's just my metabolism or something.

Anyone else have this problem?



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20 Dec 2008, 3:18 am

I kind of get that too. People gawk at me weighing only 142 lbs at 6 feet, but it's not as bad as my friend from high school who was 6 foot 1 and 131 lbs.



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20 Dec 2008, 3:37 am

You look buff actually from your picture. Reminds me of my cousin.



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20 Dec 2008, 3:45 am

The picture is old, from 2004, I think.



20 Dec 2008, 4:00 am

No but I get. "Are you eating enough?" "You are sure skinny" "You're too thin."

I am not anorexic thin. I'm average, thin as Joon I'd say. My bf says I'm thinner and my parents say I have no fat on me. That is a lie, I do have some.


When I went to get my new hair style, the lady there who cut it made comments about my body. She said my pants were big on me and I was very thin and I could wear a size three. I told her they wouldn't fit me because my butt is too big and my hips and my upper legs.
Maybe if I had a diaper on they wouldn't have looked so big. No I didn't tell her about the diapers.



I don't eat lot of food but I love sweets and I still have my thin body. All I had today was pop tarts and Velveeta noddles. Wait I also had a brownie my bf bought me.



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20 Dec 2008, 4:30 am

I always used to get teased when I was a kid and teen because I was skinny.

But I actually think I'm a good weight now just a bit underweight for my size.

Yeah like it is rude to call people fat, but it is ok to hassle someone about being skinny.

For the record I happy with how I am and I couldn't care less what people think of my weight. :lol:



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20 Dec 2008, 4:30 am

Omg how i hate that. I`m a 32 year old man and
i have heard that before, i`m 6`3 and with a
bodytype that gets skinny if i dont eat alot and
train.

To begin with i felt bad and thought it was a really
mean thing to say, i got sad. Then i got mad. Why
the hell are these people talking like this about me?
And then one day i had had it. One guy, with a beer
gut looking like s**t manages to tell me that he didnt
think i looked so hot. So i told him to shut the hell
up and that he didnt look a bed of roses himself.
And then he got mad at me!! i thought i was going
to kill him for a while :x And after that, if someone
i dont know well for some reson find it neccesary
to comment on my looks, i get mad. I get really mad
and tell them to get the hell away from me and
stop being so rude or i will give`em 5 across the
eye. Its just rude and uneccesary. What if i started
walking around telling guys i think look like s**t
that, bet they wouldn`t like it very much and
its non of my buisness. And just to point it out,
omg how many beergut carrying, sweat smelling
a**holes there is looking like f-ing hell walking
around out there, its hard to belive my eyes
sometimes, crap with legs at the best. And
these people have the nerve to open their
stinky holes and takl about other people!
Like Chef Ramsey says; F-ing hell, what
is that!!??

If you read this and are of the "oh my, you look
skinny, are you sick" type, then know this;
If you say that to me, i`m gonna show you
exactly what i think of you, and hard. What
i look like is non of your f-ing buisness so
keep your nose out or loose it.



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20 Dec 2008, 4:37 am

^what do you weigh?

I'm 152 lbs and 6'1

:scratch: I think I can see why you went a bit nutz in the most attractive girl guy threads.



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20 Dec 2008, 4:51 am

^
Around 190 lbs - ca. 85-90 kilos at the time of writing.
I dont hear any comments these days but have
earlier, but i dont see many people either. What
many dont get is that i dont need more then that,
it would just be excess weight to carry around,
not helpful at all. But if i dont eat right and train
the weight goes downhill fast so its a struggle
sometimes, a couple of weeks ago i lost several
kilos in just 6 days and had to work to get it
back on me again. If i dont do anything i look
skinny and bad i think, but that doesn`t give
anyone else the right to spill their opinion on
my looks just to do it :x

""I think I can see why you went a bit nutz in the most attractive girl guy threads""

I have no idea what you are talking about. Something tells
me you have never seen me go nuts. I ment every word
i said there, and i still find it slightly offensive. When
people start posting half naked pics of themselfes then
i have had it, its just to insecure and stupid to belive,
it boggles my mind. People showing off themselfes wearing
underwear i have no respect for whatsoever, its just to
childish, lame and....its hard to find the words, its just
stupid. "Hey, look at me, look at me everyvbody"
No, f*** you and put some f-ing clothes on, people
are trying to eat here for gods sake, and i didnt see
anyone asking for half naked pics, it was just offered :roll:
jeez..how glad i am i dont have these people around me
in my everyday life, that would just be torture :x
And this goes for guys and girls the same, put some
f-ing clothes on and earn some respect. Anyone can
undress, its takes a brain to keep the clothing on.
If you are that pleased with yourself that you actually
give away pics of you halfnaked, then i suggest getting
a mirror and live in front of that, enjoy, just dont spread
the s**t around to others who have not asked to see it.



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20 Dec 2008, 5:04 am

Sorry to hear that.

My dad tells me I don't eat enough. Then again, he knit picks at everything.


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20 Dec 2008, 5:20 am

Think theres one big reason behind why i get so
mad when people say things like this, besides
that i think its rude. Its that i have always, in
all my life so far felt like s**t. I belive myself
i look like s**t. I know that very well, so when
people tell me they are just rubbing it in and
i really dont need that, i know so please just
leave me alone, i try to not think about it :(



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20 Dec 2008, 5:20 am

^Yeah I'm a bit the same I have to keep eating to put the weight on and can lose it really quickly.

I still get comments about being skinny but I couldn't care less. :shrug:
I used to be really insecure about my chicken when I was a teen and always wore baggy pants. :oops:

I'm sorry you got offended. People have different views on the human body.



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20 Dec 2008, 5:24 am

ImTheGuyThatDidThat wrote:
Think theres one big reason behind why i get so
mad when people say things like this, besides
that i think its rude. Its that i have always, in
all my life so far felt like sh**. I belive myself
i look like sh**. I know that very well, so when
people tell me they are just rubbing it in and
i really dont need that, i know so please just
leave me alone, i try to not think about it :(


But you are not even skinny. :shrug:

I'm 152 and you are 190 and a bit taller than me.

I'm skinny you are not. :scratch: and in saying that I've got a bit of meat on my bones so I wouldn't call myself that skinny.



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20 Dec 2008, 5:40 am

edit--
ignore, went off topic, sorry



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20 Dec 2008, 10:39 am

I don't get asked about anorexia, I get asked about bulimia because I'm always seen eating and munching on things and still have all the bones sticking out.

I also used to get asked if I'm a heroinist- I used to donate blood and always had the veins on my arms massively bruised. that plus being skinny used to give people the wrong ideas.

the fact is that I just have a good metabolism and hyperactivity, plus I hate the taste of grease so I eat mostly light things and no fast foods (that used-oil taste... bleh...).

personally I don't care that much though, if someone complains I'd just tell them that I don't like that tyre around their hips either but there's nothing I can do about it so meh.

that gets them off my back permanently.


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20 Dec 2008, 11:11 am

MR_BOGAN wrote:
ImTheGuyThatDidThat wrote:
Think theres one big reason behind why i get so
mad when people say things like this, besides
that i think its rude. Its that i have always, in
all my life so far felt like sh**. I belive myself
i look like sh**. I know that very well, so when
people tell me they are just rubbing it in and
i really dont need that, i know so please just
leave me alone, i try to not think about it :(


But you are not even skinny. :shrug:

I'm 152 and you are 190 and a bit taller than me.

I'm skinny you are not. :scratch: and in saying that I've got a bit of meat on my bones so I wouldn't call myself that skinny.



No i was sort of talking about before, not so much now recently.
But i just have that build, tall and bony and it doesn`t
take much before i look skinny i think, but its just that
i have a high metabolism and fat dont seem to stick,
so i have to train to get bigger/not skinny since i seem
to shrink away when i do nothing.