Will he ever let me go?

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I think this is funny so I'd thought I'd share it.

Last night my ex stalker IM's me. The last time he had IM me was two years before so it was as if he saw one of my posts on here where I talked about him again when I was replying to someone's post on here when she said how people act more AS when they look up the condition and keep reading about it so I told my experiance about it how I knew someone who did that because he changed and got worse when he kept obsessing about AS.


I mean this guy claims I was mean to him and plays the victim. I don't know if he really thinks he's the victim or he just wants to be so he is acting like he is the victim instead and if he thinks I was so mean to him, why would he keep wanting to be my friend? Who wants to be friends with someone who is mean to him?

I thought he finally let me go and moved on but I guess I was wrong because he IM me last night. I bet it be another two more years when he does so again unless he sees this post and decides to IM me under a new sn he will create, then I would know for sure it had to do with the post I made when I talked about him in it. It's a coincidence he is a member here but I haven't seen his new posts in a while. I didn't even know he was here when I joined but I didn't run because I am not going to let someone scare me off of forums.

I didn't read his last IM he sent me last night so who knows what he said. At least he didn't go after me under a new sn, that was one of the reasons why I got rid of him. I was being harassed which I call stalking because he followed me all over AIM under different screen names and kept trying to add me a few times to yahoo messenger. That's what stalkers do.

maybe you could change to another IM service, or change your screen name/IM address/whatever but if you do then don't state in public forums which service it's with NOR your new IM IDs or whatever..... it would stop your stalker, he seems obsessed with you but oddly not IMing you for 2 years

It's entirely your decision though

Going off topic, but when I read the title to this thread I had a sneaky suspicion you were going to Rick-Roll me!

On the serious side, it must be freaky being stalked. <shudder>

I did get a new sn when I was 18 so I could still talk to my buddies so that is what I did. I never ever posted it on forums before because he could find it and you never know what forums he goes to. I still use my old one because that is how I am well known and I like getting new buddies. I shouldn't have to hide my identity online just to ditch a stalker. Instead I have an alternate screen name and I can always go invisible. I even had to go around telling my buddies my new sn so they can add it and IM me under it when I log off under my other one but then I decided to link them together. It made a lot easier for me. I had all his screen names on my other list under my new sn so I would see when he be online so I could go invisible under my current one to make him think I wasn't on. I would even get a kick out of seeing him log off and log back on under different screen names as if he was looking for me. I have started to think about rather I should retire from my old screen name. After all I don't talk to lot of people on my list so I doubt they ever IM me in case they ever want to chat again.


I think he is hoping I'd be his friend again but how can I give him another chance for what he put me through? I don't want to go through all that again. I am usually a forgiving person but in some cases, I can't forgive someone if you have given them many chances and they hurt you too many times.

put little messages to him in your posts

in the 80's, when communism was on, and socialist latinamericans were all cultural and active over in europe, my dad was a member of "the cuba club", some silly little "we love communism!" boys club. the cops here, bored as always, got nothing better to do, so they tapped the phone, trying to battle communism

every time they called their friends, and heard the noises from being tapped, they would greet the cops as well

I used to leave nasty messages to him in my AIM profile. I remember I got real close in reporting him to the FBI. Now I know I could have called my local police and they probably would have taken it from there and track his IP and send the FBI after him. I have had an online friend who was also stalked by a lady online from South Dakota and yes the cops over there showed up on her door step and handed her a restraining order from my online friend.

I'd like to know WHY THE HELL do you still have him in your contacts... Seriously.

Just where did I say I still have him in my contacts? He IMs me occasionally with a new sn he creates and IMs me. He went two years without IMing me. I don't remember if I ever removed his sn's from my list under my other sn when he stopped IMing me under different sn's he create so no need to see when he be online so I could go invisible. I hardly use my other sn when I chat but I am still logged on under it when when I come on AIM because I have those two screen names linked but I don't bother checking the buddy list.