What is making your life difficult right now?

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Time to vent about the difficult stuff in your life. Come on folks, let it all out.

Money problems are driving me insane.

No car and no available transportation...

Not ever having a real girlfriend made life hard for me for the longest time but I recently decided not to dwell on it very much any more and my mood has improved dramatically!

But for right now, my step-dad abandoning my mom for another woman is a major adjustment. The money I received from my inheritance is running very low now. I need to find another job as soon as possible, that is if I can find one I can hold.

*Worried about starting at a new school

*Major lack of friends

*Having bad luck finding a job

All in all, I actually have an extremely good life. It's upscale and I have no major worries atm. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. But there are some little things I would like to improve, like skipping the next eight or so years and starting my full-fledged adult life. I cannot wait to be older.

Let me sum it up:

jawbrodt - gentleman with money problems
MissConstrue - lady with a need for a car and public transportation
Social_Fantom - gentleman without a lady
b9 - hose in the back yard is driving him crazy

money - 1
car - 1
single - 1
household - 1

want to know about me?

I am single, no car, no money, and do not even have a backyard

i have all of those, but i've learned not to care for such trifle stuff, i could die tomorrow and have no regrets ^^

My sister and getting organized for the new apartment - we have 3-4 months and have barely started planning things.

Oh and she's decided she doesn't like the apartment we had planned on (and had even had them hold one of the apartments for us, which is right near both of our schools) and she's now looking at another (and we have a VERY fixed income >_<)

I'm still frustrated about my empty social life (improving).

I'm struggling with my problems with stress, relating to others, and having meaningful friendships, compounded by a constant, gnawing loneliness which is in turn compounded by the fact that I just came out of a hellish relationship that was not only my first, but I poured so much emotional investment, not to mention effort and money into it only to, in the end, not only get absolutely nothing in return, but to realize that most of the stuff I *thought* was meaningful in it turned out to be false.

Also having serious issues with my job (the military of all things) and am very likely going to leave soon. This is compounded by the fact that I just lost alot of money due to the aforementioned relationship, making the need to replenish my savings more imperative than ever.

Also have to figure out what I'm doing in school, although that's not as bad as it seems because rather than having nothing and trying to build something, I'm actually having trouble choosing between about 5 different fields that I'm interested in and so far have been advancing simultaneously.

I was also out on my own for a short while (related to the aforementioned relationship, which was long distance until I moved) but recently returned to my parents'. I had enough problems living with them before I got a taste of freedom and independence so it's becoming even more imperative that I move out again soon.

And just to fill things out, my car sucks. I can't complain though, it's still pretty damn good for something I got for $1500.

All in all, my life's okay. Gives me a useful perspective I can use to help others, which is what really matters.

not much, my life's awesome.

But...
The Watchmen movie sucked

I was frankly disappointed with Street Fighter 4
and my friend's pool is being repaired.

It's that time again. Let's see where we stand

jawbrodt - money problems
MissConstrue - no car, no public transportation
Social_Fantom - no lady friend
b9 - broken backyard hose
rileyhitman - not much
BobTheMartian - stress, gnawing loneliness, job issues, school??, ended a hellish relationship, car trouble
protest_the_hero - empty social life
Lily_cat - money problems, sister is a financial disaster
phil777 - could die tomorrow and have no regrets

Problems:

money - 3
car - 2
single - 3 (not counting phil)
household - 2

Again folks i have all the above; I'm only missing an ended hellish relationship and backyard hose.

another annoying thing is that the postman rides a motor bike and he always has his headlight on.
he rides into my yard because he has to turn around. i am the last letterbox on that street.
the arrow points to down my driveway.


when i see his bike at 11:30 am, i am usually watching "hustle" and the overhanging imprint of his headlights on my eyes makes me have to strain to see the TV screen for about 5 mins.

i told him about it once when i was outside when he was delivering my letters and he drove off without hearing my whole sentence.

My anxiety. Panic attacks are kicking my ass lately.

Nothing bothering me too much at the moment, except for the fact everyone at school seems to be going out with each other and I have noone