I am extremely pissed off at my brother. (opinions please)

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ShadesOfMe
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09 May 2009, 10:28 pm

I'm so pissed off I want to scream. It's not even funny how pissed off I am. It's mothers day weekend, and my parents decided to go away for the weekend. I was looking forward to a nice night at home. I had my plans all laid out. I got an old doll today(from ebay) and I planned on sitting in front of the TV watching a movie with her, and cleaning up her hair. Then i was going to make a bagel, and relax, and clean my room because my boyfriend is coming in a few days.

My brother lives 15 mins away from here, at college. The day after my BF comes he's set to move back in for the summer. I had locked the door, and bolted it, because I would be home alone all weekend.

It seems he has keys. I was doing some research on my doll and about to go downstairs and start my routine, when suddenly someones knocking on my door. It scared the s**t at me, because i'm home alone, and i didn't think anyone could get in. He used the side garage door to get in. He just up and decides he's going to come on over, watch hockey at a loud level and make food, and bring crap into the garage. Without telling anyone.

He didn't tell me he was coming, which is extremely inconsiderate, and he scared the s**t out of me. Now he's stomping around, angry at me, because I turned off his Hockey, and he called my parents and they told him whats what.

I'm so damn mad! he didn't have the decency to call and tell me he was coming before he came and disrupted my entire schedule and routine. I literally feel like smashing his face in. He has absolutely NO respect for me or my space.

My parents have some alone time=me getting relaxing alone time.

and the worst thing is he doesn't even get what an inconsiderate thing he's done. he's going around yelling on the phone that it's "ridiculous" that he should have to go upstairs to my parents bedroom to watch hockey.

opinions? I mean he honestly scared the crap out of me, he could have been an intruder!



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10 May 2009, 5:59 am

I can understand why you're pissed off, I would be too.

Is your brother NT? Because I don't think NTs really realise just how frustrating it is for us to have our routines disrupted.

Sometimes (OK, often) I really wish they'd use that empathy they're supposed to have. :roll:


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10 May 2009, 9:06 pm

Your brother been a little jerk there. He needs to apologise.



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10 May 2009, 9:58 pm

you have a boyfriend wich im shure you just go to church on sundays with but your brother is upsetting you?


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