20 May 2009, 2:37 pm
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31 May 2009, 11:24 am
^ I really know how you feel Padium, I get weirded out too 
Yes, it has happened a bit, and I still get some creepiness even when I wear totally unattractive things. So it's not that. It doesn't matter if a man is attractive, buys you things, gives smarmy compliments etc, they can still be a classic creep. It's not that either.
Now I'm going to stop right there. I'd like to chat too because it's an issue that troubles me, but I read this thread through and I'm noticing that as well as the OP asking about his wife and the ladies replying (and the supportive men I guess), I'm seeing a lot of men posting defensive or justifying things.
I don't want to share stuff in the womens discussion if I feel like some men will come in here to make less than constructive remarks. Sorry 
That's just how I feel.
01 Jun 2009, 4:06 am
27 Jun 2009, 11:34 am
Ok creepy to me was the guy that followed me for 3 years from the ag of13 to the age of 16 <i moved> Told everyone I was his girlfriend even thow I barely knew him and would look in my bedroom window while standing on a shed in order to see in the 2nd story. Then he showed up at my prom 3 years later and tryed to act like we were old friends. Oh also he had a girlfriend who was my class mate and younger then me and he was 17 <i think > when he started to follow me and went as far as to drop out of school in order to chase me home everyday. This was all before the stalking laws in Va were I was living at the time were on the books to for the cops to do anything about it ethier A he had to kill or try to kill meB be caught in the act of looking in my window C rape me or D some combo of the three. On top of that the girl he was dating was told by him that I was trying to steal him and I go beat-up by a group of girls for this "man stealing" and was bullied by her buddies for years over it. Creepy is also any guy that follows me not happens to be walking down the same street but follows me while he may or may not be yelling about some part of my body and or something he'd like to do with or to me. I could go on. Not creepy talking to a girl in a nice way like gee I noticed your pretty eyes,hair. smile <anything above the neck>. Then walk away. Asking a girl a question like what should I buy for my mother/sister/female friend while in a store. Things like that are alway or as long as you don't touch the girl or getting realy close. Because saddly most women are a little shell shocked from dealing with real creepy guys form the time they had boobs.
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27 Jun 2009, 5:32 pm
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27 Jun 2009, 8:41 pm
Actually, a female's(as in a WOMAN) sex drive is controlled mostly by HER hormones too, ya know. My ex would get extremely *frisky* whenever she was ovulating. Thats what I hear is the case for women in their late teens and into their 30s: Womens sex drives are cyclical and rise and fall in sync with their menstrual cycles. Its oft said that a mans sexual peak is at age 19 and a woman sexual peak is around age 35.
Men's hormones are pretty constant, and testosterone is more potent than the female sex hormones, not to mention, but men tend to have higher testosterone levels then women have estrogen levels, and male sex drive in itself is more powerful and needing more immediate relief than female sex drive. And a bunch of other stuff, but I don't have time to type up the results of all my research into puberty and hormones.
A mans testosterone levels most certainly DO change over time! But very slowwwwwwly, as in over the course of several decades. But in late adolescence and early adulthood, both men's performance reaches a peak and womens fertility reach their peak. I do happen to know that certain mental disorders can cause women to have EXTREMELY strong sex drives, that is, craving sex as much as a young man does. A good example is bipolar/manic-depressive disorder. Its not uncommon for bipolar women to become promiscuous during periods of mania and by the time women hit their 30s they start to admit that they want a man whos good in bed.
27 Jun 2009, 9:03 pm
Actually, a female's(as in a WOMAN) sex drive is controlled mostly by HER hormones too, ya know. My ex would get extremely *frisky* whenever she was ovulating. Thats what I hear is the case for women in their late teens and into their 30s: Womens sex drives are cyclical and rise and fall in sync with their menstrual cycles. Its oft said that a mans sexual peak is at age 19 and a woman sexual peak is around age 35.
Men's hormones are pretty constant, and testosterone is more potent than the female sex hormones, not to mention, but men tend to have higher testosterone levels then women have estrogen levels, and male sex drive in itself is more powerful and needing more immediate relief than female sex drive. And a bunch of other stuff, but I don't have time to type up the results of all my research into puberty and hormones.
A mans testosterone levels most certainly DO change over time! But very slowwwwwwly, as in over the course of several decades. But in late adolescence and early adulthood, both men's performance reaches a peak and womens fertility reach their peak. I do happen to know that certain mental disorders can cause women to have EXTREMELY strong sex drives, that is, craving sex as much as a young man does. A good example is bipolar/manic-depressive disorder. Its not uncommon for bipolar women to become promiscuous during periods of mania and by the time women hit their 30s they start to admit that they want a man whos good in bed.
Men are 1/2, biploar women are 1/how many?
27 Jun 2009, 9:04 pm
*Sigh*....I hear this statement and variations of it ALL THE TIME from women. I'm sure there are probably millions of women in this world who would concur with you and "creepy guy stories" are a pastime of women; especially when they are all in a group and go on man-bashing escapades.
I think its pretty clear to me that women use the word creepy to describe men they find Actively Unattractive. But its always the same old story; a guy approaches them who they dont happen to fancy and is persistent despite the fact that they are trying(albeit in vain)to send nonverbal cues that they arent interested. It pisses me off who women in this thread define creepy based on SPECIFIC examples when it is obviously a general characteristic which applies to many people depending on who is applying the term.
27 Jun 2009, 9:33 pm
*Sigh*....I hear this statement and variations of it ALL THE TIME from women. I'm sure there are probably millions of women in this world who would concur with you and "creepy guy stories" are a pastime of women; especially when they are all in a group and go on man-bashing escapades.
I think its pretty clear to me that women use the word creepy to describe men they find Actively Unattractive. But its always the same old story; a guy approaches them who they dont happen to fancy and is persistent despite the fact that they are trying(albeit in vain)to send nonverbal cues that they arent interested. It pisses me off who women in this thread define creepy based on SPECIFIC examples when it is obviously a general characteristic which applies to many people depending on who is applying the term.*points to the door* Please leave...
27 Jun 2009, 9:45 pm
*Sigh*....I hear this statement and variations of it ALL THE TIME from women. I'm sure there are probably millions of women in this world who would concur with you and "creepy guy stories" are a pastime of women; especially when they are all in a group and go on man-bashing escapades.
I think its pretty clear to me that women use the word creepy to describe men they find Actively Unattractive. But its always the same old story; a guy approaches them who they dont happen to fancy and is persistent despite the fact that they are trying(albeit in vain)to send nonverbal cues that they arent interested. It pisses me off who women in this thread define creepy based on SPECIFIC examples when it is obviously a general characteristic which applies to many people depending on who is applying the term.Ok I'll try and make it very clear to me a creepy guys is one that their chases you and in runs after you and scares the crap out of you, touches you out of nowere or you clearly tell NO and won't stop bugging you. To me anyway thats creepy.
28 Jun 2009, 12:10 am
*Sigh*....I hear this statement and variations of it ALL THE TIME from women. I'm sure there are probably millions of women in this world who would concur with you and "creepy guy stories" are a pastime of women; especially when they are all in a group and go on man-bashing escapades.
I think its pretty clear to me that women use the word creepy to describe men they find Actively Unattractive. But its always the same old story; a guy approaches them who they dont happen to fancy and is persistent despite the fact that they are trying(albeit in vain)to send nonverbal cues that they arent interested. It pisses me off who women in this thread define creepy based on SPECIFIC examples when it is obviously a general characteristic which applies to many people depending on who is applying the term.Ok I'll try and make it very clear to me a creepy guys is one that their chases you and in runs after you and scares the crap out of you, touches you out of nowere or you clearly tell NO and won't stop bugging you. To me anyway thats creepy.
Well thats reasonable CRD, but many NT women call guys they find actively unattractive "creepy" and use the term fall too liberally IMO. Padium: I dont know what the odds are for someone to be bipolar but I DO know that bipolar, unlike AS, is EQUALLY common in both sexes though it affects women differently than it effects men. But what I hear from women about sex STRONGLY correlates to their age(range): Young women complain that all men want is sex whereas slightly older Women complain both about difficulty getting an organism AND about how hard it is to find a man who's good in bed.
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