What you will NEVER understand about men

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Yup. It's the same in this country.
I could see the benefit of a pee-and-dash approach using the urinals when there's a very busy venue, but even then... surely there are still cubicles provided for both genders ?

Yes! Exactly. Or other girls (or sometimes guys) telling you he wouldn't go for you, that you're not his type, that he only dates {blondes, tall girls, asians, 'bombshells', insert characteristic of choice}. Or maybe - just like guys - we might sometimes think the object of our affections is out of our league; not that we don't deserve love at all, but that the man in question is maybe a bit too good for us Can you pleasepleaseplease just show when you're interested? Hand holding or arm around the shoulders works for me. Just... please make it obvious. Please.



Agreed. I'm a know-what-you-want-get-it-and-get-out kinda girl.



Actually, nagging's more about repeatedly reminding you to do something (put the garbage out, get a haircut, do your taxes). Reminding someone of mistake they made over and over is just petty.



Agreed to an extent. But just because the argument's over doesn't mean the issue is resolved. It's worth actually sitting down and working out out, don't you think? Then no-one will feel the need to keep bringing it up over and over again.



A lot (if not most) of us have good and bad days, complexion-wise. Some days natural really isn't sexier...



Overplucked ain't pretty. But strays aren't great either. I think I'll keep plucking those ones



I wish all guys felt like this. Too many boyfriends have done the whole 'hard done by' act when I just wanted to be held. I didn't lead them on or start something and not finish it. I don't want to have to qualify what kind of hug I'm after all the time.



I'd really prefer the truth, or for you not to discuss the topic at all. I'm never going to ask if I look fat. I know when I look fat, or when something looks unflattering.



Point taken, if I'm hormonal and less-than-rational. But then, I recognise it and apologise pretty quickly for that. As a previous poster said, sometimes the things you find trivial are actually something really important to us. Try to understand why we're upset; there might be a deeper issue.



Cool. So long as you appreciate that the feeling isn't reciprocated In public, that is. In private's okay.



As a couple of people have said, know what you're apologising for. Otherwise how can you be sorry?



*blinks* But I have long IM chats with guys all the time… Maybe this is just you.



Feeling's mutual.



No worries. But don't freak out about the fact that I remember all the little details, even months or years down the track. I'm sick of guys acting like I'm a creepy stalker in that regard.

What, and lose our jobs after an accusation of sexual harassment!

Unless the fairer sex has made it very clear that they want us to touch them, or even talk to them!, we dont dare, at least not the considerate amongst us, especially those of us who have reached a more considerate age.

The "isms" have succeeded with their schemes, and we let them, now we have to lie in the bed we let them make for us.

Why all they think about is sex.

I think about Love and having kids and taking them to the zoo and seeing their happy little faces as they eat their ice-creams, Girls think Iam weird,

They always seem to have the sex obsessed ones on their arms.
One girl had boob and buttock implants at her boyfriends insistence, why would any girl chose a man like that who would want her to change herself just to be even more of a sexual object?

I find this thread rather amusing.

Why do men pee standing up in a bathroom in a house? It's unhygenic to get pee on the floor.

Why we leave the seat up!

sport , yeah go team what ever

Fair call, though at the office it cuts both ways. Not that men are likely to call women out on sexual harassment, but I've seen plenty of girls see their careers 'stall', or their contracts left unrenewed, after making their interest clearly known. For somewhere a lot of us spend the lion's share of our adult lives, workplaces are an absolute minefield when it comes to romance and such.

(P.S. I'm 100% in favour of sexual harassment legislation. Yes, sometimes it goes awry, but - as someone who works in a company and industry that's extremely heavily male-dominated - I feel a lot safer knowing that there's sufficient disincentive for a lot of unwanted attention.)

I try my best to put it down when I can.

Why do men stand too far away from the toilet when they go? Do they think their monkey is that long?

Why do Horses not like to pee when they are standing on concrete?

Why are horses relevant in a thread about men? Or are we talking men-horses?

Putting it down is inefficient, which is precisely why leaving it up makes perfect sense.

Maybe its for the same reason?