Do women like men?

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OMG, would you please just get therapy and figure out what happened to you. To begin with, you need to re-frame your experience from "This woman did this horrible thing to me" to "This PERSON did this horrible thing to me" and then process it and get on with your life.

don't try to understand women. nobody can.

Oh come on, spit it out ladies,

Men have started most all the wars since the dawn of humans,
Men have raped pillaged and plundered women since the dawn of time.
Men have killed in what ever name since before we created religion.
Our prisons are full and there is about 100 males to 1.5 female ratio in out prisons.
Women are afraid to walk down a dark road by them selves because their afraid of men.
And Man has basically enslaved women through out all time, even forcing them into that of cooking cleaning and doing our laundry and dishes.
Men cheat-on lie swindle use and abuse women much more then women do.



Were all just plain evil aren't we? that is, except for the ones you find cute and attractive.

Last edited by AspergianMutantt on 15 Mar 2014, 9:40 pm, edited 1 time in total.

LOL.

Anyway, the question in the title makes about as much sense as, "Are eyes blue?" "Are cars red?" "Does milk come from cows?" "Were Japanese men samurai in the Edo Period?" "Were ancient Roman dictators power-hungry?" etc. It's a question that you can't answer directly because of its vagueness and its attempt at broad-brushing. You'd may clarify for the person, but why would you want to bother half the time?

Seriously, this. There is no ONE generalization about an entire group of people that applies to them all. There are mean, screwy people of both genders in the world. Best thing to do is learn the warning signs of a problematic individual and avoid them. Believing that somehow 'all men' and 'all women' are hive minded clones that all think, feel, and behave the same way is foolish and kind of bigoted, to be honest. Human beings are all different, though there are certain expectations and peer pressures that are generally specific to each gender, but that's a cultural thing and not something fundamentally part of human beings.

You need to figure out people on an individual level, without resorting to shallow stereotypes and assumptions based solely on their genital arrangement.

Ill be sure to do so I am sorry about this rediculous generalized question both men and women are equally capable of cruel things and I have issues trusting either but I suppose I shouldnt assume all people are like this be it man or women and maybe eventually trust others once again instead of making foolish bigoted assumptions.

Who knows. But I'm sure they don't like men who start threads with giant sweeping statements in the thread title to gain attention.

Is it me or am I seeing two blue beans?

Sometimes it seems to me if that guys are only interested in me as a friend it's because I'm fat or ugly, or they're gay. If you're thin, superficially beautiful and they're straight they see you only as a sex object and may pretend to be your friend and be interested in what you say but inside they're wondering how quickly they can get you into bed with them. Or at least that's what society has "taught" me, that men don't have any non-sexual attraction to us and that it's genetic because we've hardly evolved at all since the stone age and men instinctively see young, attractive women as being suitable to breed with because they don't show signs of disease or parasites or being infertile, and back then men probably nearly always bred by raping and and were polygamous because it used to actually be beneficial for our survival as a species. So we're doomed, I guess, because the world has changed but men and women have not, and it's an "adapt or die" planet.

Well to be truly honest I hate men. But I have my own reasons for it...
But then again, I probably hate women just as much. I hate the whole gender thing the most, I suppose.

after my assault for a while I did also, would have made me quite happy if every male vanished off the planet

as it gets more distant I can handle being around the occasional one - IF they are not pressuring me for sex

Now, can you imagine, if that was done to you by your own sex? its then becomes hard to hate without hating your self because of being that same sex. and no not because I would want to be or do anything like those whom have harmed me, but because many times it feels like others, esp women, are looking at me like I am just as guilty as the rest that have hurt them, simply for being male. and then to top it off women wanted little to do with me because I started having baggage issues, then being told to man-up and shut up about it, just get over things like i am some saint that can so easily forgive and forget then strike a positive attitude to march on like nothing can hurt me.

No, I been there lady, not all men are the same, it just takes a few bad apples to spoil the picture of and about the rest. and the longer you refuse to face and realize that the longer your going to waste your life away in that self imposed prison where you can never truly live, one that you created for your self to hide, only to find the only one who can open those doors and let you back out is you. and no one wants to deal with other peoples baggage even though it was other people whom helped create it, unless their paid for it.

Yes, I understand, all too well. do you?

Oh, so apparently when a woman gets sexually abused and doesn't trust men, we should validate her mistrust and give her our sympathy and any attempt to change her perspective is a form of trivializing her trauma. But when a man is sexually abused by a woman, he needs to get therapy and he needs to change how he sees the situation. Yeah, so as long as you have a vagina, nobody has the right to tell you how to cope with your trauma, but if you have a penis then hell mend you, good sir! Your PTSD is problematic!

I hate the double standards here....

How do you know anyone in this thread was sexually abused by a woman?

Either way this kind of discussion should go out of women's only subforum.

just unearthed an MRA

Yes, because apparently pointing out a double standard makes me an MRA. Apparently, because I am disgusted by the fact that you people would minimize the pain this person has lived with while demanding others to empathize with yours makes me an MRA It's like how I'm a communist because I believe rich people should pay their taxes (spoiler alert: I'm not a communist). Or maybe I must be some sort of anarcho-capitalist because I like shopping! Oh noes! The secret is out guys!

Loving the the attempt at guilt by association, though. I used to think actually debating people was a sure fire way of knowing what their political stances were, but apparently conjecture is good too.

Cannotthinkof, AspieOtaku actually said in the thread that he was sexually abused by a woman and all these people did was tell him he should get over it, essentially. Does that not strike you as a little bit f****d up? The people on this forum expects everyone to just deal with the fact that some women hate men and don't trust men because of their personal trauma. We're told blnot to police the coping mechanisms of rape victims. And yet, here you people are, doing what you so condemn to someone just because they were being honest that, yes, they do fear and even dislike women because of their own trauma.

And before you complain any further abouthow I am invading a woman's space or whatever, I am a woman and I have every right to feel safe to be myself on this forum as well.

I've just been over every one of his posts in this thread and I can't find anywhere were he said he was sexually abused by a woman. Are you getiing this information from somewhere else?