Women, what did it feel like to lose your virginity?

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ohh you were told

well then you don't know how it feels
I could be told it hurts to snap my leg in half but unless it actually happens to me I don't know how it feels

do you think you could make maybe one reply without rolling your eyes? and im guessing its the truth since i doubt the person lied

It took two attempts for me. The first time it hurt so much I told him to stop, and then we tried it again the next night, and I was already half "open", so it was easier, and I was ready for the pain.

It hurt for around a week. But it all depends on how small you are and how big he is. Sex sometimes still hurts, even after 5 years if I'm not aroused enough, but that's because I have small hips and "components", lol. Plus my boyfriend is quite large in that respect

do you think you could maybe make one post without being a total dochebag?

everyone hates me! :s

op nope i cant. drama queen

Does it hurt more or less than getting your ears pierced??

It hurt much, much more! Almost enough to make me cry.




Anyways, now I don't even feel any pain when he and I, ummm..., make love. Entry is smooth and easy and pleasureable, as long as things are well-lubricated. I don't even have to be aroused anymore. Just somewhat relaxed.

For me it felt like I was tearing (and I probably was), and it hurt so much Jack had to stop twice. But it was over really fast. There was a bit of blood but not much. I walked around everywhere for the rest of the day with most of the blood on my skirt.

I'm 41, still have my virginity, so I may as well be a none. I know it's spelled n-u-n, but since I'm not very religious I'll be a non-religious version called a none. Actually I just made that up. This is one of my rare, clever moments.

I'm not usually curious about how others lost their virginity. It supposed to be a magical, beautiful moment. Yeah, right. In fact, too much detail about it makes me feel kind of sick, so I've only read a little bit of other people's posts. I guess I must really be asexual. Whatever.

I was 21 when I lost my virginity and I was so drunk that I don't really remember if it hurt or not, however I'm guessing it didn't. It was completely consentual, though, don't worry. After that one time I didn't sleep with anyone until I met my husband at 24, and we had a VERY successful start to our sexual relationship if you know what I mean.

So I was lucky, I guess!

First time hurts from what I have heard, then feel really god second time, I tried to have sex with a virgin when I was a virgin myself and things did not click I could not fit my appendage in and did not want t hurt her either and plus I was jittery anywho so it was all a turn off and lost my virginity to a woman later who was not a virgin but also the wrong kinda woman to be with since she was abusive to me later on. I dont think I can handle taking a womans virginity away if it hurts her nd plus its to tight to put my um appendage in and I don't want to force it in either or cause pain. If I kn its going to hurt a woman I reframe from it.

It didn't bleed it didn't hurt much, just felt like being stretched open.
My hymen never bled, everyone's hymen is different, some are more elastic and don't break.
The hymen is just the left over skin from when your reproductive organs were formed in your mother's uterus.

She is referring to the "hard thrust" as evidence for him doing it on purpose.
Her feelings about thrusts in and of themselves-when mutually consented to-had nothing to do with it.

Edit: I wrote this before reading the follow-up messages to that little conversation-sorry.

Last edited by Rivka333 on 27 Nov 2015, 10:46 pm, edited 2 times in total.

From the research I've done online, by adulthood, most (virgin) women don't have enough of a hymen to break. Pain is likely from other causes.