A question of gender: Would you rather be male or female?

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Would you rather be male, female, or neuter?
I am female, and am content being so. 31%  31%  [ 88 ]
I am female, but would rather be male. 18%  18%  [ 51 ]
I am female, but would rather be genderless. 22%  22%  [ 62 ]
I am male, and am content being so. 17%  17%  [ 48 ]
I am male, but would rather be female. 6%  6%  [ 18 ]
I am male, but would rather be genderless. 5%  5%  [ 15 ]
Total votes : 282

UglyDuckling
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04 Aug 2010, 7:01 pm

I mostly don't care. Female is fine. Male would've been okay too.

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08 Aug 2010, 3:26 pm

I'm female and I would rather be genderless. I hate how society had predetermined ideas about each gender, gender roles and such. I don't want people to make assumptions about me or fit me into some predefined box or role based on gender.



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08 Aug 2010, 4:30 pm

As I see it, in an ideal world we'd either all be hermaphrodites, or sexless fruit-people spawned from massive womb-trees in gigantic forests of these same trees. These trees would be the only reproducing element of the human species, and all we, the intelligent, mobile part of the species, would have to worry about would be to be as far away from home when we die so that the seeds we'd be carrying inside us would spread to new earth.

So yeah, genderless.



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11 Aug 2010, 7:46 am

Once when I was very little I wished I was a boy so that I could, well you know use the loo in a certen way (I was only 4 back then) but since then I've always loved being a girl and would not want it any other way!

I still fancy boys though....

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12 Aug 2010, 8:00 am

I tend to think that we are all have varying male and female attributes.

As babies, almost all of us had the same sexual organs which differentiated into either male or female parts.

We had gill slits too : )



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12 Aug 2010, 10:04 am

I'm a girl and I like being a girl. I love clothes, make-up and boys and other such things. :)



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04 Sep 2010, 11:49 pm

I would rather be genderless. Life would be better.


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05 Sep 2010, 5:16 am

I'm not just comfortable being female. I love being female! I find it hard to understand why anyone wouldn't want to be female. I'm very much a girly girl, with mostly stereotypically "male" interests.

Of course, it's entirely possible I'd feel the same about being male, if I were male. I've never been male, so I don't know. I probably wouldn't miss the girly stuff, since it's unlikely I'd have tried it.

I think in terms of brain chemistry, I'm pretty much neutral. It's why I love things like makeup and heels and skirts, but also love football, video games, and action movies. Before we were a couple, my husband said I was his "girl friend who likes cool guy stuff." I'm much more at home being "one of the guys" than "one of the girls." My ex-fiance's roommate once walked up to me after a bad date and stated, "I don't understand your gender! Wait, I forgot, you are a guy in a skirt!" I wasn't a bit offended, as I like being one of the guys just fine.



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13 Sep 2010, 1:36 pm

I'm a female, but I'd rather be male. Oddly enough, to me, this SEEMS genderless, as it's males who aren't almost wholly defined by how they look and other arbitrary gender signifiers. There's an anonymity in baggy, comfortable clothing, an unpainted face, and a body with natural hair that isn't afforded to women.


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13 Sep 2010, 2:47 pm

I'm very happy being female.



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13 Sep 2010, 3:40 pm

Bethie wrote:
I'm a female, but I'd rather be male. Oddly enough, to me, this SEEMS genderless, as it's males who aren't almost wholly defined by how they look and other arbitrary gender signifiers. There's an anonymity in baggy, comfortable clothing, an unpainted face, and a body with natural hair that isn't afforded to women.


That's because 'man' is the default gender in our society.



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13 Sep 2010, 7:00 pm

I'm happy to be female 8)


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14 Sep 2010, 10:43 am

LKL wrote:
Bethie wrote:
I'm a female, but I'd rather be male. Oddly enough, to me, this SEEMS genderless, as it's males who aren't almost wholly defined by how they look and other arbitrary gender signifiers. There's an anonymity in baggy, comfortable clothing, an unpainted face, and a body with natural hair that isn't afforded to women.


That's because 'man' is the default gender in our society.


That's what I was getting at. I don't see "woman" being used as the default term for all people. :evil:


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14 Sep 2010, 12:21 pm

Does genderless mean I still get to wear makeup but don't have to have periods? That one then.


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14 Sep 2010, 12:31 pm

Can I be emotionless? Please? I want to be pure metal and cold wires, no feelings, no humanity.


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14 Sep 2010, 1:16 pm

Men have easier life than women. So I'd rather be a man, but being a woman doesn't bother me.


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