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Do you like them?
No, too big. 25%  25%  [ 75 ]
No, too small. 12%  12%  [ 37 ]
Yup, they're juuuuuuuuuuust right. (Lol Goldilocks boobs) 35%  35%  [ 105 ]
I'm a dude/just wanna see the results. 27%  27%  [ 82 ]
Total votes : 299

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23 Jan 2013, 10:37 pm

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My boobs, size 30HH, are the best in the world! I dress them in beautiful bras and they give me feminine look.


Quote from waaaay back on page 1, but yes that is possible naturally, and no, the size is the same as the American size would be. I know this because I have bought both American and European bras.

I myself am a 32 (actually more like a 31, but they don't make 'em in between) H/HH/J depending on the style of the bra. Unlike the earlier poster, I do not love my mine, they have always been uncomfortable, unwelcome guests on my body since puberty. As an aspie who doesn't like sudden, unasked for changes, having these grow very quickly (and they were as large as they are now by the age of 12 or 13) was extremely disturbing.



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23 Jan 2013, 11:49 pm

It makes a huge difference to the visual appearance and shape of your boobs if you're wearing the wrong bra size, which is a very easy thing to do as most store assistants who are supposed to be professionals at it use an outdated measurement method.

I spent effectively my whole life till now wearing the wrong size because I've always worn a 32 whereas I'm actually a 30 in band size. The problem is it's almost impossible to buy bras in that size as most stores only stock 32 up, and even specialist stores tend to have a tiny range in the 30 band size and don't even stock enough different cup sizes.

I was wearing 10DD/32DD and it was too small so I went to this place that specializes in large cup sizes and got measured as being 8F/30F. I bought two bras in this size and they fit my boobs like a glove, it's a wonderful feeling when a bra actually fits you properly.

I said I am happy with my breast size mainly because I am me and I don't want to change because then I wouldn't be me any more. Although it would be easier if I had a less unusual size bust and sometimes it's annoying when I'm trying to exercise as I get a lot of bounce and it can hurt if I'm not supported properly.


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23 Jan 2013, 11:56 pm

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Mine are around a 28C, just big enough for a handful. My boyfriend says he loves them. But unless I wear a really tight top I look just like a little boy :'( :cry:


What's wrong with 28C? That's a pretty good nice size. And your boyfriend would be mad or gay not to love them.

What is it with you and your insecurities about the size of your boobs anyway? Body dysmorphia?



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24 Jan 2013, 1:47 am

I appreciate that :) Yeah, the first time he saw them his exact words were *impressed voice* "I love your f****n boobs!" But my insecurity is because I have a small frame - 5'3" and between 95-100 lbs. A C on me looks like a small B on anyone else. :/ I just wish I had better ones, you know? Ones that were noticeable in shirts that aren't painted on. My sister is taller and bigger boned than me and I used to hate having boys over when she was home because she would wear tight low shirts, although she didn't have an ulterior motive and was embarrassed when my mom and I pointed it out. Still though, it's like on King of the Hill when Connie catches the boys peeping at Luanne - "Why would anyone peep at me when they could look at her?"

Everyone knows any red blooded man loves big breasts and will only settle for small ones if other things make up for them, which I guess my hips might. They're okay. But most men think small breasts are repulsive, childish and boyish.


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24 Jan 2013, 4:14 am

B is still good. Hell, the girl I've been in contact with is practically A, and yet I still love her body.



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24 Jan 2013, 5:00 am

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:

Everyone knows any red blooded man loves big breasts and will only settle for small ones if other things make up for them, which I guess my hips might. They're okay. But most men think small breasts are repulsive, childish and boyish.


That's not true - while some guys do like big boobs other guys actually prefer small boobs, it's very much an individual preference thing. Plus as a woman there are big benefits to having small boobs; you don't have to wear bras all the time, you don't get pain, discomfort, or stretch marks, and they don't get in the way when you're trying to exercise.

And trust me - the grievances listed above only get worse if you're somebody with a big cup size & a narrow frame because your chest isn't wide enough to give the extra support to your boobs (believe me I know, at a 30F - as mentioned above - I'm grappling with pain & stretch marks all the time)


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24 Jan 2013, 6:55 am

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But most men think small breasts are repulsive, childish and boyish.


If its typical for american boys to have small boobs, i would not trust the drinkwater anymore. ^^



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24 Jan 2013, 8:29 pm

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:
Everyone knows any red blooded man loves big breasts and will only settle for small ones if other things make up for them, which I guess my hips might. They're okay. But most men think small breasts are repulsive, childish and boyish.

Repulsive! Oh dear no! Besides pretty girls tend to be small and I tend to talk to women's faces, not their breasts. That said sizeable breasts could be pretty nice.



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25 Jan 2013, 12:13 am

^ Exactly. Men prefer big ones.


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25 Jan 2013, 2:15 am

'Men' is a big generalization. Anyway, why put your attractiveness to men as such a top priority? There are other important things in life. Plus, if that's you in your icon then you're a seriously attractive person anyway and shouldn't need to worry about being unattractive (although it's hypocritical of me to say so, it's very common for one to feel insecure about one's appearance from time to time).


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25 Jan 2013, 2:18 am

@Sunshower I wish that was me! :) That's Taylor Swift, my favorite singer.


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25 Jan 2013, 2:26 am

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@Sunshower I wish that was me! :) That's Taylor Swift, my favorite singer.


Haha, sorry. I tend to assume when people post pictures as their avatars it's them in the picture. I think it's my Asperger's literal thinking (like if I post a photo of a face as my avatar I automatically post my face as the avatar is a visual image representing that person). But over time I've become more varied in my avatars, sometimes posting pictures of inanimate objects or other things. All human ones or ones including human parts are of me though.


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25 Jan 2013, 5:20 am

^ I am the same way. My body is me, so the image of it is my image.

Back on topic. What type of boobs guys like varies. Some guys are butt guys and care more about the size and shape of your rear end.

My breasts are ample. My bf is fine w it, I am fine w/ it. But he would still love them (and me) if they were small. He goes on and on about my large butt, even tho I hate the size of it. I am bothered because the two aren't proportional. It's in the bone structure so nothing will fix it, but it sucks being two sizes bigger on the bottom, especially when looking for clothes.

I will say this about big boobs. It hard to do sports that require moving your arms across your body. Try to swing a golf club, or a bat.


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25 Jan 2013, 5:49 am

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I appreciate that :) Yeah, the first time he saw them his exact words were *impressed voice* "I love your f**** boobs!" But my insecurity is because I have a small frame - 5'3" and between 95-100 lbs. A C on me looks like a small B on anyone else. :/ I just wish I had better ones, you know? Ones that were noticeable in shirts that aren't painted on. My sister is taller and bigger boned than me and I used to hate having boys over when she was home because she would wear tight low shirts, although she didn't have an ulterior motive and was embarrassed when my mom and I pointed it out. Still though, it's like on King of the Hill when Connie catches the boys peeping at Luanne - "Why would anyone peep at me when they could look at her?"

Everyone knows any red blooded man loves big breasts and will only settle for small ones if other things make up for them, which I guess my hips might. They're okay. But most men think small breasts are repulsive, childish and boyish.


I'm 5 ft and a 28F.

Frankly - they cause more problems than they solve most of the time - I wouldn;t mind if they were smaller, it would make my life easier - getting custom bras is a b*tch as well as expensive as all hell.
Even though like you mentioned - most people just assume I am a 32E or a 34D rather than realising what size they actually are, they look smaller.

Furthermore the guys I have been with much prefer my ass (which admittedly is probably better than my boobs) to my boobs - and I really doubt you could get much more "red blooded" than them.
Some guys like different parts: some are all about the boobs, others all about the ass, others all about the legs. They all have their own thing.


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25 Jan 2013, 8:41 am

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Frankly - they cause more problems than they solve most of the time - I wouldn;t mind if they were smaller, it would make my life easier - getting custom bras is a b*tch as well as expensive as all hell.
Even though like you mentioned - most people just assume I am a 32E or a 34D rather than realising what size they actually are, they look smaller.


This. I am closer to 5'8" though so I guess at least my height offsets them (although my chest is still narrow).


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25 Jan 2013, 10:44 am

I don't get people who complain about having big boobs. It's like if I were to complain that I was too thin or my face looked too pretty.


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