Do All Men Do Stupid ****?

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That's not right. Being kicked in the face is abuse, as it's been stated by other users. I recommend leaving him and seeking help.

Well, first off, I don't hate him. I wouldn't have stayed in the relationship for three years if I hated him. Why would I want to throw away three years together? Second, I think some of you are overreacting. Like I said, he didn't kick me on purpose. He was being childish. He isn't trying to beat me or something. He's acting way to young for his age and I can't help but question how much control he has over his emotions, which seem to be at the same level as a teenage boy. Neither one know when to stop. My question was if other men have these moments or if it's just a select group? I really don' think his mother did much raising when she was around. He was abandoned by his father. Then, his mother contracted cancer and passed away our first year of dating. That same week she passed, his father died of a heart attack. I just don't know where my patience should end or whether I should be less uptight if all men act like idiots at times.

Men don't do stuff like that, but immature, selfish babies in grown men's bodies do.
I know two "men" who used to threat their wifes like that. One of them ended up almost killing his wife by hitting her head in the wall, the other one tried to kill his wife by chasing her in the backyard with an axe. I really wish i was making this up, but i'm not. Just get away from him as fast as you can before it's too late.

I don't understand you. He all 3 years have had that behavior and you accepted to be in relationship with him, and now you don't like it, or he has that behavior few months?

Three years is NOTHING. Young people can be so stupid. Staying in sh*t situations just because they think it's been a long time. Throw it away like a soiled tissue. WTF are you waiting for? You're a grown woman. If you're going to make excuses for him, that's your choice. You'll remain in your situation as it becomes progressively worse and more years will go by and it will become even harder to leave because, apparently, you judge a relationship's stability based on time you've endured with a sociopath. When your dog is seriously injured or dead and you are seriously injured, there's not much more that I can say that I haven't already said. But these are choices that you make, and no one else. Just make sure you keep using birth control and condoms.

Maybe some of you should consider not belittling others and calling them stupid. I'm done talking about it here, because I don't feel like I having my intelligence bashed by strangers. Good bye.

Way to be a hypocrite. You come in here calling someone you supposedly love, and even all men f**ing stupid and immature. Then you say "Maybe some of you should consider not belittling others and calling them stupid". Why don't you tell that to a mirror?

You have nothing nice to say about him. You do not ask anyone any questions to show you care about understanding why he acts this way. In the OP you indicate you just want to find someone better but you your afraid all men are that bad, then you backpedal when I suggest you just break up with him.

Maybe you just want to blow off steam and rant and exaggerate, I understand that, but that is exactly what your SO is doing when he talks about kicking people in the face. Seems like you want it so you can say whatever you want no matter how harsh and mean and people should just read your mind or excuse it, but if someone else does it it is stupid and immature.

Frankly, anyone who laid a hand on my dog in a way that hurt him would be right out on the curb. Dogs are dependent creatures; they rely on us for their care. They rely on us to make sure no one is hurting them. No one who abuses animals is welcome in my life.