me either, too.
I think I should count as a post message joiner, because to show my support of aspi(affection) I joined up right before you (Alex) asked us
But...it'll be years before I seriously look because of kids and that new found freedom I will have to experience when they leave the nest.
Anyways I still wanted to join because likely when I am free and free to look, I will be searching for someone more like myself.
I think it is a great place for pen pals and I like the wink function very much. I did not at all feel I was signing a premarriage contract with the enlistment. It didn't even feel like those dating sites I stay away from.
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"I'm sorry Katya, my dear, but where we come from, your what's known as a pet; a not quite human novelty. It's why we brought you.... It's nothing to be ashamed of, my dear, but here you are and here you'll sit."