bluerose wrote:
I believe you're not rude intentionally. Some women are, though, and when those women still have a ton of male friends you start to wonder, though, and it doesn't come off looking good as far as what males prioritize in life. There's a difference between being honest and being rude, and most males I know do not hesitate to be rude to me with no reason, and most women I know are very nice to me. Like night and day, black and white. That's because I'm a rare extreme in my physical appearance, and hence, face more extreme challenges from people, males that is.
The thing is, you are autistic, that's why you're here. You may not be aware of how you are coming across as rude to those women and unfairly generalizing women in general. Unlike my experiences, I don't think women have said bad things to you without provocation, or hit you and pushed you and bullied you like males have done to me. It's more subtle for women, and that's good, because you can change women's opinions of you by learning better social skills.
I don´t entirely agree with you. I think that woman can be condescending and horrible to to their peers without a particular reason. Especially NT woman. It´s like there in constant competition with each other without being straightforward about it. I think that a lot of woman are too complicated and nasty when it comes to dealing with other woman and that is not something that I want to experience in everyday living. A lot of woman are really good at saying nasty things to each other with a smile on their faces and that pisses me off and I also find it very confusing. Since I have a problem with anger (I have a bad, bad temper) I tend to stay out of situations like that. Eventhough I attempt to look like a tiny girly girl my brain isn't wired that way and I find it hard to get along with both woman and men. I don't have gender issues and I am contented with being female but I don't always think and behave like a woman. Thank god!!
21 Oct 2011, 9:09 am
