GivePeaceAChance wrote:
you have never seen me! you have never lived my life!
I walk down the street and men scream at me about having sex with me, I walk up to a bus stop and they ask to have sex with me, they do it in stores and just about every where else I go! They ask me do do all sorts of things whether I am polite or outright rude in refusing. It does not even help to tell them I am lesbian, this only makes them want to watch me and another womon OR have a threesome (which is idiotic! lookup the freaking definition of lesbian fools)
you men do not have this sort of experience and have zero idea what it is like to have this occur. ESPECIALLY in the weeks following a rape!
Thats where your mistaken, I was raped by another man once, and it seemed that every time I turned around some gay guys was hitting on me, and they didn't want to take no for an answer. so yes I know how it feels. and what sux even more, is women treat me according to how other men has treated them, when I have never been that way toward women, its just not fair.
Soccer22 wrote:
I like certain men, just like I like certain women. I can't like every individual I meet, but I definitely don't judge them on if they're a male or female, I judge on vibes and personality.
This is what hurts me, I been told more then once my size and body language scares people, so I give off that aura or vibes without meaning too. the bullies when I was younger picked on me for this, they seen that I was autistic and different and I made people uneasy when I wasn't even aware of it, this made me an easy target. people judge me all the time for sins I never committed just because I give off that wrong vibe. do you have any idea what its like to just enter a room and women shun me and call me names just because they thought I was looking at them? that really hurts when after being raped by a man and hit on for decades by gay men while women wouldn't even give me a second glance, or worse yet reject me just because they thought I was going to be interested in them... and whats even more, is after all that my self esteem crashes, and women want nothing to do with a man who can not be confident enough for them.