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ADDersrock
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30 Aug 2007, 12:52 am

mine too, in fact tonight we had a conversation and he said he wanted it five times a week, there is NO WAY, I can do that. I have so many sensory issues, and anxiety that I have to get almost drunk when we do it, I will be a raging alcoholic at this rate.



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30 Aug 2007, 10:36 am

ADDersrock wrote:
mine too, in fact tonight we had a conversation and he said he wanted it five times a week, there is NO WAY, I can do that. I have so many sensory issues, and anxiety that I have to get almost drunk when we do it, I will be a raging alcoholic at this rate.


lol!


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30 Aug 2007, 2:24 pm

ADDersrock wrote:
mine too, in fact tonight we had a conversation and he said he wanted it five times a week, there is NO WAY, I can do that. I have so many sensory issues, and anxiety that I have to get almost drunk when we do it, I will be a raging alcoholic at this rate.


Eek. That's terrible.
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31 Aug 2007, 11:27 am

Sex is annoying because I have the physical in-built drive for it but when I have sex I find it to be completely boring. If there was a pill I could take to get rid of the drive I'd be completely happy.

Sex is just too much of an issue with the world imo. It seems to me that almost everything in life is driven by the desire for sex and the search for suitable mates. Sad imo, I'd rather exchange 1 good conversation for a lifetime of sex. Pity that I'm male too, people will always assume the worst of me. I don't even make an attempt to speak to females unless there's something about them that obviously rules out sexual relations, e.g. they're lesbians, involved with someone, loads older than me etc.

The only serious relationship I've had was ended by me because I got sick of being asked for sex by my ex-gf combined with getting sick of her constant paranoia at my reasons for not wanting it. I wasn't seeing anyone else and I found her to be very attractive, but how many times can you tell someone that without feeling completely drained?

I'd like to know girls of my own age but I always feel that girls see what I said above as just being a line and that I want sex really and they'll be the ones that will change me. I really don't.