How many crushes have you had in your life?

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When I was younger I never acted on my crushes. I thought it was more fun to crush from afar. I thought the same things as you, quirky. The crushes on school kids stopped at 16 though. I found them all to be boring, pretentious, and lacking sense. Most kids, including me, did.

Oooohhh, man....I once had a crush on the blue Wiggle, Anthony.

That is very sad.

When I was a teen, I had a massive crush on Yul Brynner.

And people think I'm weird...?

Fiona

I think I've had approximately 3 crushes on people I've actually met. And probably about a dozen anime characters.

Three. The first I was fairly fixated on for a few years, but we remained friends. The second was one of my best mates, we're still close. The third was the love of my life. Long story but it was all online and over the internet, until we met on opposite sides of the world, and it was all over from that moment on. We're still together.

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I think someone said 30. I think that's about right for me.

Since entering the Change of Life, there have been no more crushes, thankfully. They were too intense and really messed me up. I started believing them to be possible relationships. (Really bad.)

I never revealled them to anyone or to the men upon whom I was crushed.

None. I tried to think of at least one for 24 hours then gave up. I liked my husband after we started dating. It was the same with my old boyfriend.

In no particular order...


1. Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys. He was my first, I think, I can't be sure.

2. John Walsh from America's Most Wanted


3. A boy named Brad T. in grade 9 who turned out to be a total a**hole

4. A boy named David C. from grade 9 who was okay

5. Gandalf Greyhame

6. Sirius Black

7. Saavedro from Myst III: Exile, though I made fun of him to cover it up!

8. my diving and swimming instructor at the swim club when I was 11

9. my friend at the YMCA, Terrance, who has since died.

10. Albus Dumbledore

11. Neville Longbottom

Probably others too.

yup, around 30. sometimes more than one at a time.
Plus, nothing ever came of any of them till now, and now that someone really does like me back, I refuse to let myself get involved with him.

It's killing me, freaking killing me. why does self-control have to be so darned hard?!

Oh wow... A lot.
I'd say 30+ celebrity crushes and about 10 real-life crushes.

I'd say about 7 or 8 of those real life crushes deflated very, very quickly after actually I tried to get to know the guy better. Either that or the guy went off to college or dated one of my friends.

I'd say right now, I have one completely hopeless one where I am just friends with the guy (who is completely different from me by the way) he is so loud, crazy, opinionated, but somehow still a nice guy. It's hard to explain.
And the one more that may not be quite so hopeless because, first off, the guy is a grade lower than me (but still my age, I'm fairly young for my grade level) and his age makes me feel less insignificant, and two, he's better at math than I am. Not that math nerds are undesirable, but they don't often have a dozen girls chasing after them. I'd rather not deal with angry girls, thank you very much.

about four serious ones. I mean where I'm not just like "damn their hott."

Oops. double post.

I've had 3. One was a celebrity, Hayden Christensen. I also had a crush on a substitute teacher in high school. The only serious crush I've had was on a skater guy my age who worked close to where I work. I haven't seen him for a while, but I'm sure I would still have a crush on him if I saw him again.

I've had maybe 5 crushes.
My son is the result of one

I take back what I said, now that celebrities count. I had a huge, platonic Loli crush on Gunter Grass (not kidding) for a long time.

I have had 1 crush. This is when I was 12 years old.