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Triangular_Trees
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20 Aug 2008, 6:20 pm

Nothing turns an asexual on sexually. (its more appropriate to say that nothing turns them on enough to engage in the process of wanting to have sex as some do masturbate, though not as a sexual process)

But romantic attraction has nothing at all to do with anything sexual. There is nothing at all about being in a romantic relationship that requires the presence of anything sexual. The two are very distinct entities but thats difficult for someone to understand whose never experienced romantic attraction without it being accompanied by sexual attraction



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20 Aug 2008, 8:42 pm

Triangular_Trees wrote:
Nothing turns an asexual on sexually. (its more appropriate to say that nothing turns them on enough to engage in the process of wanting to have sex as some do masturbate, though not as a sexual process)

But romantic attraction has nothing at all to do with anything sexual. There is nothing at all about being in a romantic relationship that requires the presence of anything sexual. The two are very distinct entities but thats difficult for someone to understand whose never experienced romantic attraction without it being accompanied by sexual attraction


oh ok! well you know best :wink: yeah, I guess it does have its pluses though!



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20 Aug 2008, 11:31 pm

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Out of curiousity have you run across Aspie women attracted to your so called "Bad Boys"?


Yes, me! I am sure I am not alone in saying this, but rule breakers can be very exciting.

But more than that, I want “my guy” to show me the clubs, the bars, the lively places. PLEASE don’t talk to me about Star Trek, or Fantasy & SciFi, or other geeky lifeless topics. Take charge, don’t treat me like your sister on a family outing. Be bold. Be sexy. Drive a motorcycle because it is exciting, not a Honda Civic because it is "practical". Explore caves, not internet chat rooms.

I am soooo tired of ‘PC’ guys who have been emasculated.


What are 'PC' guys?


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21 Aug 2008, 5:05 am

PC is what we call computers, so I guess she means computer nerds. Or maybe Penis Craving guys


here's her kinda guy :wink: would you like me to explain to you sweetly how I got the direct link code from the top of the page on youtube and posted in on this thread? :nerdy: :wink:

[youtube]http://youtube.com/watch?v=Djj7jW6ny2M[/youtube]



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21 Aug 2008, 5:46 am

^yeah that is pennys guy. :P The terminator does actually have aspie traits and I think is a fine example and role model of how aspie males should act in real life and treat women. 8)

PC means Politically correct, meaning you can't say anything that is offensive to anybody.

If you do you get a whole lot of lesbian man hating feminist protesting and picketting outside of your house (there are some outside my house as I type this). The pretty feminine don't look to bad, it's just the butch ones I'm worried about 8O .

That is why us males have become emasulated. :cry:



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21 Aug 2008, 7:13 am

MR_BOGAN wrote:
^yeah that is pennys guy. :P The terminator does actually have aspie traits and I think is a fine example and role model of how aspie males should act in real life and treat women. 8)

PC means Politically correct, meaning you can't say anything that is offensive to anybody.

If you do you get a whole lot of lesbian man hating feminist protesting and picketting outside of your house (there are some outside my house as I type this). The pretty feminine don't look to bad, it's just the butch ones I'm worried about 8O .

That is why us males have become emasulated. :cry:


there was actually a terminator porn movie, called the penetrator! Instead of him saying "come with me if you want to live" it was "come with me if you want to have sex" :P

DOH! My mistake!

meh, women like that need to lighten up, I call myself a ret*d.



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21 Aug 2008, 9:37 am

MR_BOGAN wrote:
^yeah that is pennys guy. :P The terminator does actually have aspie traits and I think is a fine example and role model of how aspie males should act in real life and treat women. 8)

PC means Politically correct, meaning you can't say anything that is offensive to anybody.

If you do you get a whole lot of lesbian man hating feminist protesting and picketting outside of your house (there are some outside my house as I type this). The pretty feminine don't look to bad, it's just the butch ones I'm worried about 8O .

That is why us males have become emasulated. :cry:


I think I sort of have a thing for emasculated guys... :heart:

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And if he has a sense of humor that's a plus!! !!

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21 Aug 2008, 12:12 pm

MR_BOGAN wrote:
PC means Politically correct, meaning you can't say anything that is offensive to anybody.

Oh... Like benjimanbreeg, I thought it meant computers. But it makes no difference, because us computer geeks are still regarded as "emasculated" evolutionary garbage by most women... even Aspie women...



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21 Aug 2008, 1:58 pm

I'm not attracted to what I consider to be bad boys, though I do see them as sexy in a dangerous (and annoying) kind of way, but it's possible the men I am attracted to would be considered bad by other women. I think to a certain extent masculinity is 'bad' by definition. All that testosterone.

It's true that sex and romance don't necessarily have anything to do with each other, except that romance makes sex safer, because it puts it in a relationship. People fall in love at all ages, starting at about 8 months old when we fall madly in love with our first care givers. Hey, a crush is a crush. Sex is physical intimacy. Romance is emotional attachment.



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21 Aug 2008, 2:42 pm

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starting at about 8 months old when we fall madly in love with our first care givers. Hey, a crush is a crush.


I don't think so unless this is used in Freud psychology. Least I hope it isn't... :|


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21 Aug 2008, 2:44 pm

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I think I sort of have a thing for emasculated guys... :heart:


yeah, this always gets me going

[youtube]http://youtube.com/watch?v=9hMrY8jysdg[/youtube]



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22 Aug 2008, 2:31 am

Triangular_Trees wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
Triangular_Trees wrote:
Silver_Meteor wrote:
Out of curiousity have you run across Aspie women attracted to your so called "Bad Boys"?



:? I'm not sure what you are asking. Whose bad boys are you talking about?

I'm not attracted to bad boys, though I like to fantasize about criminals


I thought you were assexual?



I am. Romantic attraction is entirely different from sexual attraction


So my mom was wrong. Romance does not always lead to sex.



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22 Aug 2008, 1:19 pm

MissConstrue wrote:
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starting at about 8 months old when we fall madly in love with our first care givers. Hey, a crush is a crush.


I don't think so unless this is used in Freud psychology. Least I hope it isn't... :|


Not Freud. Piaget and Bowlby. And I've seen it elsewhere, too. But I won't insist anyone agree with me.



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23 Aug 2008, 9:53 am

MissConstrue wrote:
I think I sort of have a thing for emasculated guys... :heart:
Eddie Izzard? Although I wouldn't call him emasculated, I'd call him liberated.

I have a crush on him, tbh. :oops: :D

http://www.eddieizzard.com/



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23 Aug 2008, 10:18 am

EnglishLulu wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
I think I sort of have a thing for emasculated guys... :heart:
Eddie Izzard? Although I wouldn't call him emasculated, I'd call him liberated.

I have a crush on him, tbh. :oops: :D

http://www.eddieizzard.com/


Eddie would claim to be a lesbian in a mans body...He's not gay but feels feminine. I can relate to that only the oposite. I've always had a thing for guys like that too.



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16 Sep 2008, 6:25 pm

I'm definitely attracted to what would be considered "bad boys" I think because they have that "dont care" attitude. I tend to match, they generally call me cold or emotionless. Well, some have still.