Your opinions (women only)

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In general, often redheads again have faces that I don't find attractive. But I do very much admire the color.

But actually there is one redhead that I do find attractive, my ex boyfriend has very bright red/orange hair and I think he's pretty cute. He's very thin, too (he weighed 89 lbs and was about 5'4 when we dated). He dyes his hair brown or black usually, but I absolutely love the natural color of his hair. It is so rare and such a beautiful color.

Exactle Mithara the hair ain't so bad its just the facial features in general. I am not really attracted to red head girls with green eyes or blonde girls with blue eyes because in my opinion its not strikingly attractive. JK Rowling is an example of a red head with poor facial features and pale skin. Julia Roberts is one red head though has got nice facial features like brown eyes and a nice mouth. Quite a few brunnetes are strikingly and classicly good looking esspecially the brown eyes and the brown or black hair is very attractive to me.

Its not always about hair colour though, a good body is important as well. Well not to everyone of course.

Right, its not about the color. Just that generally people who are naturally blonde often have a type of face (or you might say a 'style'?) that is not attractive to me.

But looks don't really mean that much anyway.

Mithara well of course in society looks can mean more to some than others. It varies some people will just go for looks alone, others will just go for personality whereas some may prefer there to be a balance of good looks and a good personality. One of my old friends told me "Good looking people with good personalities don't really exist." This could be due to the fact that good looking people don't feel the need to develop a personlity and not so good looking people need to make up for what they lack in looks with thier personality. Of course its not so good for not very good looking people who have no personality because they can end up as loners or as school kids would describe them "Dork, geek or nerd."

Sorry I don't mean to be intrusive or anything but I think you yourself said on another page that you find it very hard to like your husband when you go through bad times. This is of coure because you have chosen your husband over his personlity not his looks am I right? I mean to you most of the time he probably has got a very good personality but when thier is a disput between you two his personlity may not come out as well as it usually does? I am just trying to create a clearer picture here thats all. Correct me if I am wrong?

No, you are not wrong. I wonder if it might be easier to weather the hard times if I were very attracted to him. For example, when above-mentioned redhead dumped me all I could think about was how I wasn't going to be able to touch his beautiful hair and soft skin anymore. I think perhaps it might be easier if there were something tangible like that to tie me to my husband.

I think a balance between looks and personality is the best thing.

Wow that was fast response to my post lol. Anyways your right they don't have to be Cindy Crawford or George Clooney but as long as you can find some who is prettey or nice looking that has a nice sweet pleasent personality you can't go far wrong.

What I found sad is that there is this guy I know with seveare Autisim and he says he will marry one day. I mean you never know miracles can happen.