A question of gender: Would you rather be male or female?

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I had a hard time accepting that I was a girl as a kid. . Aside from my mother, I had no consistant female role models. I used to wonder if I was gender confused, but looking back I realise it was because everyone kept trying to force me to be the sterotype of feminity. Once people accepted I was a tomboy and kept trying to get me to play with dolls and wear uncomfortable cloathing and was finnaly allowed to be myself, I was finnaly satisified with being a female. In the first grade I was involved in a clique of at least two other girls and were were always reminding each other of how "icky" boys were.

I hated having periods but I was able to have a hystorectomy. I wouldn't miss my breasts if something happened to them but they aren't as bad as my periods were. I'm 24 yet when it comes to males, I'm somewhat like a six year old girl and find them gross and digusting and that they must be avoided. But then I feel the same way about all people regaurdless of gender.

Wow, how were you able to have a hysterectomy? Most docs won't even tie a woman's tubes if she wants to remain childless when she's that age, much less take out her uterus.

hmmm.... i mean i really like being a girl, i just think being a guy would be so much easier! the main thing is guys can't get pregnant(well, most of them anyways!). that is my biggest fear when i get older, is to have kids, it probably has something to do with when i was younger i watched a show on pregant ladies because nothing else was on & it scared me to death! it just seems so unnatural! i mean adopting kids is fine, its just the whole being pregnant thing that creeps me out. they don't have bras eather(well some of them should),also being a girl & being more demure(spelling? lol) is, at least where i live, a bad thing, if you're not extremly social & annoying, you're weird, but if yo're a guy everyone thinks you're cool!? i mean, what's up with that!?