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abram
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02 Jun 2008, 4:00 pm

well girls, i am really thin, we use metric system over here, so i weigh about 48 kg and i'm 165cm tall....wich is waay shorter than models are, they are usually at least 175 cm and weigh 1-2 kg less than me but i do look as thin as a model. it's depressing as hell, i feel like i'm blamed for my body, just this morning my neighbor woman shouted to me: "eat something, you're going to brake in half!" she ment it as a joke but it still hurt like hell! she is very fat and round and now i wish i'd said something back to her to hurt her as much as she hurt me, but i didn't. it ruined most of my day, though, and made me feel disgusting and that everyone is going to notice how thin my arms look

and during family dinners with some more distant relatives over, my weight is always soemthing to make fun of when there's nothing else to talk about, although noone else is usually fat or anything i'm just a little thinner than usual body-weight and i'm really sick of it all.

the bad thing is that i NEVER manage to make a smart comeback, that's probably AS-thing.

although, i eat just as much and more than people averagely do but i never ever gain any weight although i'd like to because then they'd leave it alone!.....i hope

it's always a shock for me when people mention anything about my weight, positive or negative, because, it's just weight! c'mon, i'm not THAT boring that people would have to talk about that at all. why do they mention it? how do they even notice it? i never notice if anyone is thin or not unless, only when someone is really, very very very much overweight but i don't care. why do people care about other peoples bodyweight?

honestly, when there's one thing i hate than it's discussing weight, the obsession is unhealthy. normal sized girls complain that they are fat and diet, thin girls like me are ridiculed in internet and in life and fat girls....well, i've no idea how they feel like but i quess they feel horrible, just like all the others.

oh god, it's a depressing topic

yes, i quess i AM the miserable thin person that's been mentioned in this topic but not because i'd feel that i have to starve myself but instead because wherever i look everyone is saying how icky thin girls are



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02 Jun 2008, 4:08 pm

^I don't ridicule thin girls. I know there are girls like yourself who are born thin. When I see a girl on TV who's bones are pertruding, then I start to wonder and go into a OMG mode. My friend is very thin but her bones don't pertrude and she doesn't look at all peekid. So I do realize girls come in different shapes and sizes.


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abram
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02 Jun 2008, 4:17 pm

yes, you realize but so many think that if someone is thin than they must have anorexia. i've gotten pretty paranoid about it already.....oh yeah, my last post turned into a rant...oh well


i like the athlete-woman on the first pic because she clearly isn't thinking about her body and she is happy. that's what should matter not fat-bones-weight.



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02 Jun 2008, 8:00 pm

^Sorry about that. I guess the same can be said about anyone in general. I really wonder about people who do that.


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