Joe90 wrote:
Whenever I cry my mum always says, ''why you bawling for?'' and I can tell in her voice (yes, I can read tones of voice) that she's being critical. I think the word ''bawling'' is quite a harsh word on me, because it makes me feel like a big baby. I'd rather people to say, ''what's the matter?'' or ''are you OK?'' or ''why are you crying?'', also using a sympathetic voice. That way I can know that somebody understands and is concerned, and I can tell them what I'm crying about, and they can just make me feel a little better about it. The more people snigger at me or criticise me, the more my tears will turn into an outburst - which will result in me running upto my bedroom and crying more, then being afraid to come back down due to knowing that I've made the atmosphere miserable.
Same. That's why I hate it at home. :/