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Joe90
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30 Jul 2010, 4:25 pm

I cry at the drop of a hat. I only have to get told off by my manager and I sit in the toilets and cry.

I'm a very emotional woman.



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01 Aug 2010, 2:58 pm

I get emotional a lot. It probably doesn't help that my family will yell at me whenever I'm melting down, making it worse. Apparently it's a crime to cry in my house. I hate being the only Aspie in my family. No one understands me. I'll cry at least twice a week for hours at a time. I once cried for 8 solid hours, that was when my boyfriend broke up with me a few years back. I feel like I have to stifle myself just so I won't be a burden on my family. :(



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01 Aug 2010, 7:04 pm

I cry for no reason at random times when I'm PMSing. Otherwise, it takes a hurtful comment or something I find particularly sad to make me cry



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01 Aug 2010, 7:19 pm

I have this problem aswell, and there are also times where I know it would be normal to cry my eyes out, but where I just can't.
And then I have situations where I just start crying for no reason at all. And the times where I get hurt and it triggers a cascade effect of emotions just all comming out at once.
If something goes bad socially, I tend to be upset over it for up to a week depending on what it was, and it just seems like I can't stop myself from thinking back to the situation and try to analyse it to get an answer even though I never manage to get one.
Also, sometimes I get really mad instead of sad, to the point where I randomly pick up my teddybear (yes, I have a teddybear) and toss it across the room in a brief fit of frustration.
All of this gets much worse when I have PMS, I usually isolate myself when that happens, because I just can't handle any social situations.



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08 Aug 2010, 2:14 pm

i don't know why it might be that my parents passed when i was so young (i was only 6) but every time some one says something negitive even to someone else i just start crying like nonstop idk why


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11 Aug 2010, 12:57 pm

Whenever I cry my mum always says, ''why you bawling for?'' and I can tell in her voice (yes, I can read tones of voice) that she's being critical. I think the word ''bawling'' is quite a harsh word on me, because it makes me feel like a big baby. I'd rather people to say, ''what's the matter?'' or ''are you OK?'' or ''why are you crying?'', also using a sympathetic voice. That way I can know that somebody understands and is concerned, and I can tell them what I'm crying about, and they can just make me feel a little better about it. The more people snigger at me or criticise me, the more my tears will turn into an outburst - which will result in me running upto my bedroom and crying more, then being afraid to come back down due to knowing that I've made the atmosphere miserable.



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11 Aug 2010, 1:02 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Whenever I cry my mum always says, ''why you bawling for?'' and I can tell in her voice (yes, I can read tones of voice) that she's being critical. I think the word ''bawling'' is quite a harsh word on me, because it makes me feel like a big baby. I'd rather people to say, ''what's the matter?'' or ''are you OK?'' or ''why are you crying?'', also using a sympathetic voice. That way I can know that somebody understands and is concerned, and I can tell them what I'm crying about, and they can just make me feel a little better about it. The more people snigger at me or criticise me, the more my tears will turn into an outburst - which will result in me running upto my bedroom and crying more, then being afraid to come back down due to knowing that I've made the atmosphere miserable.


Same. That's why I hate it at home. :/