Does anyone else HATE sex sometimes?

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my ex boyfriend (NT) was honest at least - he said - sex with you is weird, you seem to be so far away...

i can't say that i'm asexual, but i don't consider sex being so important in my life. of course there are days when i *feel like it*, but it happens rarely.. to tell you the truth i don't even remember when i did it for the first time, so i don't understand girls who discuss about *how old i was when i lost my virginity...*

but i must say, i don't feel too comfortable with having sex, but i absolutely love kissing... i like it, and the guys (and girls ) i've kissed so far, said they loved it too

I never like sex. I just do it to please my partner. I find it messy and disgusting. I would put it down as a chore like ironing and doing the washing up.

I actually like it best when it's overwhelming. When there's like elecrticity shooting down my arms and stuff.
But I could still do without it. It seems kind of like.. just a waste of time.;;;; It's like, "AGAIN?" We have to spend all this time kissing and undressing and then like a million years with the ******* and the *** ***** ** and then we're all gross and sweaty but we have to HANG AROUND FOR A BIT for some reason (can't just jump up and go shower or he gets this hurt puppy look) and then there's the shower and then we're too tired to get anything done for the rest of the day. D: WTF. Why don't we just go play badminton, or take a hike, or make a pie? Same effort, more fun.

What I find weird is that I have orgasms in my sleep, but not during sex?

I think it´s quite common for people to have orgasms in their sleep.

Ah...delayed reaction?

I would love to just take a pass on it all the way around. I had a brief liason with a man while separated from my partner. He appeared to want to learn how to get around all the sensory issues and take his time. In the end he said he couldn't be bothered with a disabled person. He was only interested in the sex part and nothing else. To him it was some ego boost that he could sexually be pleasing to me. Anyway I got on a tangent. My apologies. Back with my partner as it made the most sense. We have a family together and there is lots of mutual affection. I just don't enjoy him sexually. He is like a dead fish.

SEX IS GROSS!! !

YUCK!! !

I don't know if I'll ever be able to have a romantic relationship. I stiffen up with close physicial contact. It took me years even to accept hugs from anyone but my Mom and Dad.

Well I have always really enjoyed sex apart from with one person. He was submissive (which I hate) and also would only last under ten seconds and as a result I was really grossed out when we had sex but I felt bad for him as he was a very nice guy. We only had sex a few times in three months though as I kept making excuses, which is really unlike me. I broke up with him for this reason after three months. All the other people were fine though and sex has always been my favourite thing to do. Which is strange as I don't generally liked to be touched by people - only by people I have had sex with.

any one felt like they were being suffocated during sex, with the guy on top, and ur brain switching off and not realizing when u have orgasms or not.